Like can we genuinely normalise music dates

By this I mean like, no expensive restaurants and stuff you know, just a nice picnic in a park while listening to a playlist we made together then start talking about music. Because I feel like in modern society, we lost the whole purpose of being creative in dates or genuinely having a good time, instead we dress good and go be fake in public places.

I mean it's your choice how you like your dates but me, I'd rather build a fond and genuine connection then to just try and smash another person without consideration on where were going...