Hello everyone!! Is Pururin here, and this is my first blog entry. I`m going to treat this as a diary, but today i`m asking for advice!!
I`m in orchesta, I play violin, and there is this really pretty girl I know since I started classes, we are going to call her Cinderella. The thing is... I`m in love with her. She is only one year younger, but she is taller and more active than me. I really really like her, and when she hugs me, I feel like my heart stopped for a sec :`D. She doesn`t know it yet (I think) and I often write about her on my personal diary. Some days ago, she grabbed my diary and flipped through the pages (Not in bad intentions ofc) and I took it from her hands. She asked me what I wrote about, and I said I wrote in english (We speak spanish in this country), then she said " Oh I know how to read english ". Oh, sweet mother Mary, I was having a heart attack. And it only went worse when she took it from my hands and I had to run after her around the building (-v-''') She didn`t read anything after all, but I was thinking about the pink shade my coffin was going to be at that moment. Cinderella, I love you, but you`re driving me crazy. She makes a lot of physical contact with me, almost always sits next to me, and says things that make me crash out. Is she doing it on purpose?? idk. I just know that I love her, totally not platonically. And oh dear, that was enough for me to jump on my pillow and scream. She is an angel, and i`m a total fool (Franziska Von Karma mentioned).
Can you guys give me advice? I`m going to see her soon. Good night!! :33
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Mark Feliks
Responds to her physical interaction with more active gestures, like you hug her first, pat her head, randomly hold her hand. Honestly, do it in a natural manner, it radiates intimacy but with boundaries. So that one day, you confess your feelings to her. Judging from this, you have way more chance than you think ^v^
Angelito . 🇦🇷
Ya ha pasado un buen tiempo desde que publicaste este blog, pero por si acaso te escribiré mi recomendación :3
Por lo que leo noto que las cosas están bastante tranquilas entre ustedes dos, pero quizá demasiado tranquilas si de verdad te gusta tanto. Te recomiendo intentar hacer más acercamientos! Atrévete a ser más directa con lo que quieres antes de que tiempo pase y te arrepientas de no haber actuando mucho antes. Puedes empezar por temas no tan directos si te da vergüenza, como lo que ella quisiera para su vida amorosa, ya sea el tipo de confesiones que le gustaría recibir y actos que a ella le gustaría recibir de parte de su pareja (así vas tomando nota jiji). Si con tanta charla de romance sale la pregunta "¿Te gusta alguien?" NO TEMAS!! Puedes dejarlo fluir y confesarte en el momento para no enredarte con tantos planes, o simplemente darle una pista, y en un día de esos pedirle de juntarse y hacer tu declaración. Mejor antes que nunca!
Mucha suerte!! Espero que en la actualidad esté todo bien entre ustedes