ASTROLOGY: Venus Throughout the Houses PT. 2

haii this is part 2 to my venus throughout the house! if you want to see part 1 (if you don't see your house here) here is the link: https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1927756

i apologize if my grammar is off or my words arent making a whole lot of sense, i am sleep deprived and im just free balling this...

id like to HIGHLIGHT this section before we begin: these are my personal takes and no, nobody is forcing you to stay. also dont take it to all to heart...i am just a person online who likes talking about astrology and joking around.

alright so, if you havent done so- please check your houses in your natal chart. if you dont know where to look for it, i have a very beginner friendly website that i had used when i was a baby astrologer: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

- SKIP READING THIS IF YOU KNOW WHAT HOUSE YOUR VENUS IS IN vvv

(if you are using this website, make sure you are using your correct birth time since this part is crucial in placing your exact houses. once you have input your date, scroll down past the placidus and it should be the table that has the planets and roman numerals beside it. here is where you will find what house rules your venus!)

VENUS THROUGHOUT THE HOUSES

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7H VENUS ˙⋆✮

Venus takes her throne here, this is her HOUSE, the realm of Libra, partnership, and union. When Venus rests on the 7th, she speaks with clarity: love is not just something I want, it is the foundation of my life.

These natives are born with an understanding of relationships. They seek not just attraction, but harmony- an ease of flow between two people where balance and fairness are constant. They don’t fall in love halfway; they want the kind of connection that feels eternal, where both partners have chosen each other fully. Anything less, like half-hearted affection, flings, casual wandering…quickly bores them. Commitment is their romance

One of the most striking social qualities of this placement is their ability to act as a mirror. People often feel “seen” when talking to a 7H Venus, because they have a natural knack for reflecting back interest, warmth, and attention. This makes them incredibly likable!  Others walk away feeling uplifted, even if the Venus person didn’t say much about themselves. Their gift is in knowing when to listen, when to affirm, and when to gently smooth over conflict. In social dynamics, Venus in the 7th often becomes the mediator. They dislike disharmony and are usually the ones to step in when tensions rise. Friends may lean on them to settle disagreements or to keep the peace at gatherings. Even without trying, they naturally “pair people off,” introducing friends who would click, or creating balance in uneven group energy. They’re the ones making sure no one feels left out, ensuring the energy remains fair and inclusive. These natives also tend to lean toward styles that feel balanced and pleasing to the eye. They might not always be the boldest dresser in the room, but they often appear well put-together. Think symmetry, flattering cuts, soft colors, or classic styles that exude quiet elegance.

What makes them so magnetic, though, is their charm. People with Venus in the 7th radiate a sweetness that draws others in. Sometimes they aren’t even trying; others simply gravitate toward them, enchanted by a quality that feels both refined and approachable. Even if they are quiet or reserved by nature, there’s a warmth in their energy, a sense that they’re listening, seeing you, understanding you. That simple grace wins people over again and again. To many, they feel like the embodiment of romance itself, like someone who stepped out of a love story.

But this magnetism is a double-edged sword. With Venus here, admiration is abundant. People notice their beauty, their style, their grace. Others may project fantasies onto them, idealizing them as perfect lovers or muses. On one hand, this makes them unforgettable; on the other, it can create insecurity. They wonder: Do they love me for who I am, or just for how I look? Do they see the real me, or just the charm I project? For this reason, Venus in the 7th natives aren’t as quick to leap into romance as some think. They want proof that a connection is real, genuine, and lasting.

When you do commit, you give your all. Venus here wants union in the truest sense of the word! A partner who is both lover and best friend, someone with whom they can share daily rituals, dreams, and life’s long seasons. Their ideal marriage is built on equality, where both give and both receive, where compliments, sweet gestures, and quality time flow naturally. They dream of walking hand in hand through life, not just in youth, but into old age.

Their spouses or long-term partners are often described as charming, attractive, and socially magnetic themselves. Venus in the 7th tends to pull in people who embody Venusian traits: beauty, refinement etc. There may also be material or financial stability in their unions, as Venus likes to anchor love with comfort and security. Yet, it’s not the money or status they care for most, it’s the sense that their partner is wholly devoted, someone who pampers, praises, and cherishes them.

Still, Venus in the 7th must be careful. Their desire for harmony can lead to losing themselves in relationships. They dislike conflict so much that they often compromise too quickly, backing down just to preserve peace. At worst, this can create an unequal dynamic where they sacrifice their own needs. Codependency is a risk, especially if Venus is afflicted by Pluto or Neptune, which can attract partners who manipulate, envy, or idealize them too strongly. Learning to voice discomfort, to say no, to assert themselves, is vital. Otherwise, they may stay in relationships that look “perfect” on the outside but feel hollow within.

You guys thrive in one-on-one interactions. You’re natural diplomats, counselors, and mediators, with a talent for seeing both sides of a situation. You often end up in careers involving public relations, law, design, or any field that requires negotiation and charm. But even outside of work, you’re the friend who knows how to make people feel special, valued, and understood. You’re rarely without admirers.

In love, your love language leans toward words of affirmation and quality time. You don’t need grand gestures as much as you need constancy: the simple act of being there, of listening, of reminding you that you’re cherished. Harshness or neglect wounds you deeply; you want softness, romance, and the security of knowing love is mutual. Criticism delivered carelessly, dismissive words, or cold neglect can cut you far more than other placements. You crave softness and romance, not just bouquets of roses, but the gentility, the reassurance of patience, the comfort of being handled with care. At your core, you want a relationship where tenderness is mutual, where both people see and honor each other without sharp edges.

At their best, Venus in the 7th people make others believe in love. Their very presence radiates the idea that partnership is not a trap but a treasure, that commitment is not a burden but a gift. They remind others that love can be fair, balanced, beautiful, and real. At their worst, they risk forgetting themselves, giving so much to others that they vanish into the mirror of the relationship. The task for Venus here is to remember that true harmony includes their own voice, their own desires, their own beauty. The spiritual and emotional work of this placement is learning that true harmony requires two distinct voices. They must remind themselves that their beauty, their desires, and their individuality are not inconveniences to the relationship: they are vital to it. The best relationships for them are those where they don’t have to shrink or mold themselves to fit, but can stand as equals, fully seen and appreciated for who they are. When Venus in the 7th learns to balance their natural diplomacy with authentic self-expression, they step into their deepest Venusian gift: creating love that is not just peaceful, but truly reciprocal.

Venus in the 7th house reminds us that love is not a performance of sacrifice, nor a mirror where we disappear into another. It is the steady, gentle practice of showing up without losing ourselves in the process. 

𐙚 𓏵𓏵𓏵𓏵𐙚

8H VENUS ୨ৎ

Oh boy…Venus in the 8th house is…wow. Like, I can really just describe a person with this placement to be alluring. It’s an energy that feels heavier, darker, more magnetic than most. You don’t even have to try with this placement. Some people look at you and feel something in their stomach twist. Sometimes it’s desire, sometimes it’s envy, sometimes it’s that weird mix of attraction and intimidation that makes people act unhinged around you. But one thing is clear: you don’t pass through anyone’s life unnoticed.

This placement gives you that Plutonian aura- beauty that doesn’t always register as conventional but sticks. It’s that feature you thought was a flaw that ends up being the exact thing people obsess over. It’s why strangers stare a bit too long, why someone you barely spoke to years ago still remembers how you looked, laughed, or even just walked out of a room. And the kicker? Venus in the 8th doesn’t even always see it. Sometimes you feel invisible, or you downplay your appeal, because the intensity you trigger in others feels confusing or exhausting. But your magnetism works whether you acknowledge it or not.

In love, this placement is not about games, even if you sometimes come off hot-and-cold. What you really want is total honesty, the kind where both people are stripped bare emotionally, spiritually, sexually. You’re not looking for “cute couple selfies” and shallow companionship. You’re looking for someone who will hold your hand through every storm, someone who won’t flinch when they see the messier, obsessive, or even destructive parts of you. Love, to you, is supposed to transform. If it’s not cracking you open, changing how you see the world, shaking you to your core, it’s not worth it. 

You may also tend to attract people who are drawn to depth, mystery, and transformation. Lovers often come to them with a desire for intensity, whether that means passion, obsession, or the healing kind of connection that feels fated. The people who fall for you are rarely casual; instead, they tend to be the ones seeking something more powerful than surface-level romance, the kind who crave vulnerability, secrets shared in dim light, and the thrill of knowing someone beneath all their layers. These partners are often fascinated by the darker or hidden aspects of life, whether that’s emotional, psychological, or spiritual, and they are pulled toward the Venus in 8th person as if they sense that here lies a door into the depths.

But here’s where it gets tricky: you attract intensity like a magnet, which means not everyone who comes your way is good for you. Venus in the 8th can draw in people who are already attached (the “forbidden fruit” vibe), people who are obsessed but don’t actually want to know the real you, or people who try to control you because they don’t know how else to deal with the pull you have on them. And because you crave deep bonds, you might sometimes confuse possession with love. You want to be someone’s everything, but that doesn’t mean being someone’s cage. Learning to tell the difference is a lifelong lesson with this placement.

And it’s not just about romance. Your relationships and self-worth (Venus) are directly tied to your resources, money, and even your sense of security (8th house). You may notice your finances literally fluctuate depending on who you’re with. When you’re surrounded by people who truly care, you might find money comes easier, gifts show up out of nowhere, or opportunities fall in your lap. But if you’re tied to toxic people? Suddenly you’re drained emotionally and financially. That’s why setting boundaries is so deeply crucial for this placement.

Socially, Venus in the 8th moves differently than most. You‘re not really the loudest in the group, nor are you the most outwardly approachable, but your presence has gravity.Your beauty isn’t always conventional or polished by any means. Instead, it’s magnetic, carrying an edge that feels raw, sensual, or enigmatic. You’re like the kind of person who might stand quietly in the corner and still gather a circle of curious onlookers. You tend to connect most meaningfully in one-on-one conversations or smaller clusters rather than shining in big, lighthearted crowds. You ask questions that cut beneath small talk, and people often find themselves confiding secrets they hadn’t planned to reveal. While you may not seek to dominate social dynamics, you hold a quiet power in them; your words carry weight, and people remember what you say. Your presence often transforms the tone of the space, lending it a deeper, more intimate atmosphere.

Something people don’t always talk about with Venus in the 8th house is how much envy you stir up. Everytime I see this placement being mentioned it’s almost always in a sexual manner or honestly- borderline obsessive. Other people might project onto you (think backhanded compliments, unnecessary critiques, even strangers who just look at you with that weird disdain like you personally offended them by existing). Women especially with this placement get policed for how they look, what they wear, or how they carry themselves. People may say your beauty is “too much,” “too sexual,” even when you’re not doing anything. Some of that probably started young, where you were sexualized or judged before you even understood what that meant. That messes with your self-image. Some days you may feel stunning, other days you can’t even see what people claim to see in you. But once you unpack that conditioning and reclaim your body, your looks, and your power? Game over. There’s no one more unstoppable.

Privacy is another huge theme. Venus in the 8th thrives in secrecy. When you gush about your relationships or overshare, things can suddenly go sour. But when you keep your love life tucked away, nurturing it behind closed doors, it blossoms. You don’t need the whole world’s opinion on your intimacy- that energy is sacred, and not everyone deserves access to it. People already feel entitled to too much of you; your best relationships will be the ones where you both protect the bubble you’ve built together.

And the glow-up part? Oh, it’s real. 8th house Venus is the definition of a late bloomer. You may not have felt “beautiful” when you were younger, but you age into your power in a way that feels almost unfair. Every heartbreak, every ending, every crisis- you alchemize it into something new, and it shows. New haircuts, tattoos, style shifts, entire rebrands, whatever it may be- every time you survive something heavy, you rise even more magnetic. People wonder how you keep coming back stronger, and it’s because that’s literally your design.

At its best, this placement teaches you not just how to love deeply, but how to love yourself deeply. To stop outsourcing your worth to lovers, haters, or anyone trying to own a piece of you. To know that your beauty, your magnetism, your ability to transform others isn’t something you need to apologize for or hide. Venus in the 8th is proof that love isn’t just soft and sweet- it’s raw, consuming, terrifying, healing, and ultimately life-changing. And honestly? No one does it quite like you. You are iconic and you should own it.

𐙚 𓏵𓏵𓏵𓏵𐙚

9H VENUS ⋆˚✿˖°

Venus in the 9th is like a restless traveler with a suitcase full of books and a heart full of wonder. Love isn’t just about romance here; it’s a quest, a philosophy, a bridge between souls and worlds. The 9th house rules expansion, higher knowledge, faith, and travel. So when Venus lands here, relationships become a passport to something greater than yourself.

First thing: this placement radiates a kind of open, magnetic optimism. People feel lighter around you. You tend to glow with curiosity, a joy that makes others want to share their world with you. Venus here gives a knack for finding beauty in places most people overlook: in a foreign accent, a philosophical conversation, a new spiritual practice, even in the way sunlight falls across unfamiliar streets. You’re drawn to the unfamiliar, and people pick up on that. They find you charming not just for how you look, but for how you see.

Romantically, Venus in the 9th doesn’t settle for surface-level attraction. You crave a partner who expands you, challenges your beliefs, takes your hand and says, “Let’s see the world differently.” Often, this means you fall for people from other cultures, religions, or backgrounds- sometimes literally from other countries. Long-distance relationships are common here, or at least romances that begin while traveling, studying abroad, or in some higher-learning environment (college au anyone?!?). Even when you’re not actively looking, love has a way of finding you in serendipitous, almost cinematic circumstances like chance encounters at airports, classrooms, or spiritual retreats.

There’s also this teacher–student archetype to this placement. Sometimes you’re the one drawn to a wise, worldly, or older partner who can expand your horizons. Other times, you play the guide, inspiring others with your optimism and vision. Either way, Venus here thrives on learning together like trading books, debating philosophies, trying new experiences side by side. To you, a lover is a best friend, a teacher, and a co-adventurer all in one.

But let’s not sugarcoat: Venus in the 9th can be an idealist, and that idealism can lead to disillusionment. You want so much out of love like truth, freedom, adventure, spirituality and that reality sometimes can’t keep up. You may project your ideals onto partners, expecting them to embody some higher vision, only to feel disappointed when they turn out to be something else. At your best, you understand that love isn’t about perfection but about growth. At your worst, you keep chasing greener pastures, convinced the “real” love is always in the next city, the next person, the next experience. Learning to anchor yourself without clipping your wings is key.

Physically, this placement often blesses people with striking figures! Long legs for days, strong hips, and a certain athletic grace. But the real beauty isn’t just in the body; it’s in the aura. Venus in the 9th carries a brightness, an enthusiasm, that makes people remember you. It’s the way you laugh with your whole chest, or the way your eyes light up when someone tells you about a place they’ve been. That curiosity is enchanting.

Creatively, Venus in the 9th is inspired by the world. You might write, paint, sing, or create art influenced by different cultures. Publishing, philosophy, law, or even spiritual teaching can call to you, since the 9th house also rules broadcasting your vision to the wider world. Your art and your relationships alike become vehicles for sharing your worldview, your belief that life is bigger, broader, and more magical than we’re taught.

Another thing to note about Venus in the 9th house is that they have a social spirit that feels expansive, curious, and vibrant. These are the people who walk into a room and seem to carry the air of adventure with them, as if they’re always inviting others to step outside their comfort zone. Socially, they thrive in spaces where ideas and cultures collide: book clubs, study abroad groups, music festivals, international communities, or even just late-night conversations that wander into philosophy or spirituality. They are not content with shallow chatter; they prefer exchanges that open the mind and widen the horizon. Among friends and acquaintances, they’re often the one who introduces others to new perspectives. Maybe they’re always recommending films from a different culture, sharing an article about a wild new theory, or talking about their travels and encouraging others to seek out their own adventures. This isn’t just about showing off knowledge; it’s about delight in discovery. Socially, they inspire people to broaden themselves, often without even realizing it. That being said, this placement can sometimes scatter socially. Because their energy is spread wide, they may float between groups without always committing fully to one. They often thrive in circles that are intellectual, creative, or global in scope, but they can struggle in environments that feel too rigid or provincial. They dislike being boxed in, and if a social setting feels closed-minded, they’ll naturally drift elsewhere.

Now, here’s the real core: for Venus in the 9th, love is faith. Not blind faith, but the kind that feels like devotion, like a recognition of the divine in your partner, in your experiences, in yourself. You don’t just want to date; you want to grow, to become better, wiser, freer. Relationships that feel small, constricting, or shallow will never satisfy you. You need space, but not distance- freedom, but not detachment. The right partner will understand that your heart can’t be caged, but it can be deeply loyal once it finds someone who respects your independence.

Shadow side? Over-idealization, restlessness, and even preachiness. Venus here can sometimes fall into the trap of trying to “convert” lovers to your worldview, or of chasing novelty instead of working through rough patches. You may also escape into fantasies of faraway places or lovers when real life gets hard. But when grounded, you become the kind of partner who shows others how beautiful life can be, how every day is an adventure, and how love itself is a philosophy worth living by.

Overall, Venus in the 9th house is a placement of beauty expressed through openness and expansion. Their charm lies not in polished diplomacy or magnetic mystery, but in their ability to make life feel like an adventure simply by being in their presence. They invite others into a wider world, and in doing so, they embody the Venusian gift of showing that beauty is not just found in the familiar, but also in the vast and unknown.

𐙚 𓏵𓏵𓏵𓏵𐙚

10H VENUS ꫂ❁

Venus in the 10th house is like a polished mirror hung high where everyone can see it. The world notices you and not just in passing, but with a kind of fascination. There’s something about the way you carry yourself, a natural grace that turns professional spaces into stages. Venus here makes status itself seductive, and you, in turn, become a figure people project their ideals onto.

This placement often grants a magnetic public image. Whether you’re conventionally attractive or not, you radiate charisma in ways that make others perceive you as distinguished, admirable, or even aspirational. Strangers are kinder to you, bosses tend to favor you, and colleagues often assume you have some special gift. Venus here makes reputation a love language. You don’t just want to succeed, you want to succeed beautifully, gracefully, in a way that others respect.

But Venus in the 10th isn’t just about career polish. It’s about the intertwining of love and legacy. You may be drawn to partners who have power, influence, or established names, because subconsciously (or consciously) you want love that elevates your status and mirrors your ambitions. Often, these relationships begin in professional or public contexts: the coworker who becomes a confidant, the mentor who becomes more, the partner whose recognition feels like validation for the whole world to see. There’s a slow-burn seriousness here. Relationships for you are never just flings; they’re alliances. That doesn’t mean you’re cold, far from it. You can be deeply romantic, but you tend to measure love not just by how it feels in the heart, but by what it looks like in the light of day. Does it support your ambitions? Does it align with your public self? Does it build something that will last? These questions aren’t shallow, they’re the foundational. 

Ah and yes, Venus in the 10th interviews lovers. It’s subtle, but it’s there. You notice how someone presents themselves, how they’re perceived by others, whether they take themselves seriously. A sloppy, unfocused, unserious partner feels like a liability. You want someone who adds polish to your life, who makes you prouder of who you are when you’re standing next to them. The partner type often attracted to Venus in the 10th is older, accomplished, respected, or already socially visible in some way. You might find yourself magnetized toward authority figures, bosses, or people who embody the status you’re reaching for. Sometimes, your own success and visibility pulls these figures into your orbit. Love here can feel like a public alliance, like the world is watching. Which is thrilling, but also risky, because Venus in the 10th can sometimes fall into the “perfect couple” illusion: everyone sees the glamour, while behind the scenes, struggles or secrets simmer.

There’s also a shadow here: when reputation and love blur too much, you may prioritize how a relationship looks over how it feels. You may stay in something because it looks perfect on paper, or because breaking it off feels like a public scandal. Venus in the 10th must constantly ask: Am I doing this for me, or for them?

Physically, Venus in the 10th often lends a composed, elegant aura. Even casual clothes somehow look styled on you. People perceive you as graceful, well-kept, and magnetic in professional settings. There’s often something about your face, hair, or presence that photographs well, like you were meant for headshots and stages. Even if you don’t consciously try, you read as iconic. And oh, the smile. Venus in the 10th can quite literally win with a smile. There's diplomacy here, a knack for smoothing tensions, that makes people want to be on your side.

Creatively, this placement loves blending art with ambition. You might excel in industries that marry beauty and visibility: fashion, design, PR, politics, performance, art, or any field where aesthetics meet public influence. Even if you work in a less glamorous profession, you likely bring a Venusian touch like diplomacy, elegance, creativity- which makes you stand out. Networking is often one of your superpowers, as people are drawn to your approachable-yet-dignified vibe.

A thing to add, your sense of self-worth can get tied too tightly to your career or public image. A failed project, a job loss, or public criticism can feel like a heartbreak, as if your value has been revoked. Similarly, in love, you may sometimes choose prestige over passion, or confuse admiration with intimacy. Learning to anchor yourself in private values, not just public applause, is the balancing act. At your best, though, Venus in the 10th is breathtaking. You become someone who uses your visibility to bring beauty, grace, and diplomacy into the world. Your love is not small or hidden; it’s something that inspires others, a reminder that love can be as dignified as it is tender.

Ultimately, this placement is about legacy through love. Not just “who do I want beside me?” but “who do I want to build with, to be remembered with?” It’s not the most carefree Venus placement, but it is one of the most enduring. The right partner for you isn’t just a lover; they’re the co-author of your story, the one who walks with you into history.

Random fact about this placement for all my emos out there, Gerard Way has this placement :)

𐙚 𓏵𓏵𓏵𓏵𐙚

11H VENUS ᰔᩚ

This placement creates an instant crowd favorite. These natives are like walking “human magnets.” People just like them. They might not even know why, maybe it’s the way they always seem to smile at the right time, or how they make everyone in a group feel included, or maybe it’s that effortless aesthetic they radiate. But the fact is: they attract.

This isn't private. Oh no. This is Venus with a megaphone at a block party. This is the friend who always knows about the next concert, who drags you to art shows, and who, without even trying, becomes the darling of the scene. Their beauty doesn’t just live in the mirror- it blossoms in connection, in how they vibe with the collective. Socially, Venus in the 11th has a gift for weaving harmony out of chaos. They’re the ones who smooth over fights in the group chat, who know how to diplomatically phrase things so no one feels excluded, and who instinctively sense the “vibe” of a gathering. They thrive in social settings, not in the shallow way of chasing popularity, but in the deeper sense of being nourished by collective energy. They are intuitive about how groups function, how connections form, and they bring people together as though it’s second nature. At a party, they’re not the loudest one in the room, but somehow they’re the one everyone remembers. Their beauty is communal; it shines brighter when reflected through the faces of their friends, through the causes they support, and through the people who adore them.

The 11th is the house of friendship first. When Venus lives here, love often begins with being best friends. These natives don’t separate “lover” from “buddy” in fact, their partners have to be both. These natives are not always swept away by instant infatuation; instead, their romances tend to grow organically from their social world. They are attracted to people who are different, people who shine in their own way, people who stand out without needing to beg for attention. They admire independence and originality, and they fall for quirks and oddities more than for polished perfection. In love, they want a partner who is also a confidant, someone who can talk about dreams late into the night, who doesn’t flinch at their idealism, and who can also stand shoulder-to-shoulder with them at a protest, a concert, or a community event.

They fall in love through shared interests, causes, laughter at an ungodly hour, and those long convos about dreams for the future. And when they do love? It’s wholesome, freeing, and loyal. They’re the partner who brags about you to their friend group, treasures your quirks, and wants to give you space while still being your biggest cheerleader. Venus in the 11th is looking for a partner who is also a partner-in-dreams. Someone who can sit in a café and plot revolutions with them, then dance at shows, then cuddle up as if the whole world is safe. They’re fascinated by people who are unique, who stand out without trying, who are unapologetically themselves. Their love is liberating, never clingy. They’ll hype you up, give you space, and love you for your quirks, not in spite of them. They shine even brighter in groups, because their joy becomes contagious.

The kinds of people Venus in the 11th attracts are often those who are drawn to their light like friends who want to bask in their charm, lovers who admire their ideals, communities that see them as a figure of grace and harmony. They pull in artists, dreamers, activists, and anyone who feels a little “different” from the crowd. At the same time, they can also attract superficial admirers, people who are enchanted by their beauty and social ease but fail to appreciate the depth underneath. Because they project such warmth and inclusivity, others sometimes forget that they, too, need space, solitude, and real intimacy beyond the collective stage.

But here’s the flip side: if the friendship fades, the romance fizzles too. That’s why Venus in the 11th can look a little “detached” at times. They're not into whirlwind passion that burns out. They’re building connections that last, that inspire, that make them feel like they’re both on a team chasing something bigger. Another note about Venus in the 11th, sometimes natives get caught up in the glitter of utopian ideals. They long for a perfect world, for harmony and equality, and because of this, they can become disillusioned when reality proves harsher than their dream. They may spread themselves too thin socially, unable to say no to invitations, afraid that missing out will leave them exiled or forgotten. Their charm makes them welcome in many circles, but this very popularity can lead to a sense of fragmentation like knowing many people, but sometimes wondering if anyone truly knows them. When love and friendship blur, heartbreak hits doubly hard. Losing a partner who was also a best friend feels like losing two people at once, and it can leave scars that are difficult to heal. They also have a tendency to intellectualize emotions, approaching love and conflict from a rational or detached place, which can confuse partners who crave raw, fiery passion.

In endings, these natives tend to exit relationships with grace, but it is never easy. Their instinct is to preserve the friendship, to keep the connection alive even if the romance has faded. Sometimes this works; sometimes it leaves them lingering in half-attachments that prevent true closure. They dislike drama and messy breakups, preferring diplomacy, but their sensitivity to rejection means they can carry wounds quietly for years. In friendships, they may drift away rather than confront conflict directly, choosing to keep the peace even if it means swallowing their own hurt. And yet, despite heartbreaks and disappointments, they always return to the social sphere, because their soul is fueled by connection. They believe in people, in love, in the possibility of building a better world together, and this faith is what makes them magnetic no matter what.

Now, the gifts of this placement are undeniable. They are magnetic trendsetters, often ahead of the curve when it comes to style, music, or art. Designers and creators may even seem to take cues from them, as though their very presence inspires the next wave of beauty. They are loyal friends, capable of creating lifelong bonds, and their social networks often become the scaffolding of their success. Opportunities tend to find them through friends, whether it’s a job, a scholarship, or a chance to showcase their talents. And in love, they are liberating, generous, and playful. They encourage their partners to be fully themselves, quirks and all, and they infuse their relationships with a sense of joy and camaraderie that feels rare and precious. This placement is also a lowkey fame indicator. Why? Because the 11th is about the public, networks, and the internet. When Venus (charm, artistry, allure) is here, people can’t help but watch. It’s the “icon” placement, the one that makes an audience fall in love, whether that’s a literal stage, a YouTube channel, or just the local friend group where everyone gravitates toward them. That’s why so many celebrities have this (SZA, Gaga, Madonna, Heath Ledger). Venus in the 11th natives just carry that factor. People project dreams onto them, root for them, and remember them.

The 11th house is Aquarius related. So this Venus isn’t just about cliques and popularity, it’s about the collective. These people are the ones joining fundraisers, art collectives, climate marches, or mutual aid groups. They want their love and beauty to ripple outward, to touch more than just one person. Venus here has that “utopian idealist” streak,  they believe the world could be better, fairer, more beautiful. And they’re ready to bring people together to make it happen. Whether it’s through art, activism, therapy, or even just their personal aesthetic, they’re sprinkling Venusian fairy dust across humanity.

Venus in the eleventh house is, ultimately, the cosmic host of the zodiac. The one who brings people together, who makes the world feel a little softer, who reminds us that beauty is multiplied when it is shared. They are dreamers, lovers, and friends, and their charm lingers in every group they touch. Whether they are loved by a handful of friends or adored by the masses, they carry an energy that makes people believe in love not just between two people, but across the whole human collective.

𐙚 𓏵𓏵𓏵𓏵𐙚

12H VENUS ❀࿐

Last but certainly NOT least- Venus in the 12th house. What a placement- Hopefully I can give y’all some justice because, man, this placement can be ROUGH. Shoutout to my boy Char because he deserves some sort of compensation…praying for y’all.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, desire, and pleasure, does not express itself easily when placed in the twelfth house. Here, Venus is submerged in the oceanic waters of the subconscious, entangled with karmic memory, hidden fears, and spiritual longings. Unlike Venus in the 11th, which beams brightly in groups, or Venus in the 7th, which flourishes in partnerships, Venus in the 12th is veiled. Its energy is inward, secretive, and often misunderstood even by the native themselves. Love, with this placement, feels like an echo from another lifetime- familiar and overwhelming, yet somehow unreachable. Relationships are rarely simple, because the 12th house is not a simple home. It represents hidden sorrows, illusions, sacrifices, and the things we cannot fully grasp or control. Thus, Venus here becomes a paradox: it longs for deep, transcendent connection, while simultaneously struggling with self-sabotage, secrecy, and unattainable ideals.

At its best, Venus in the 12th house makes someone profoundly compassionate, artistic, and soulful. They feel love as something sacred, not just romantic, and their sense of beauty is touched with mystery. Many of these natives are drawn to music, poetry, painting, or other artistic mediums, because these are the languages that best translate what they feel but cannot say. They are receptive in ways others are not: they notice the sadness in someone’s eyes before they notice their smile, they intuit what is unspoken, they carry the weight of other people’s emotions almost unconsciously. This deep empathy gives them an almost angelic aura and people often describe them as ethereal, magnetic, or mysterious. There is an undeniable softness about them, a kind of beauty that is not loud or flashy but felt on a soul level.

But for all its grace, this placement is notoriously difficult in love. Venus in the 12th often finds itself caught in secret or complicated romances, whether by choice or by circumstance. They may fall in love with unavailable people (married partners, emotionally closed-off individuals, or people who are physically far away). Sometimes this reflects a subconscious pattern: love becomes safer when it is inaccessible, because its impossibility shields the native from the vulnerability of full intimacy. At other times, it reveals a karmic entanglement: a sense that the relationship is fated, tied to unfinished business from another life. These relationships can be intoxicating, but they often leave the native drained, heartbroken, or feeling invisible. Because Venus here tends to forgive too easily, or to see the best in others while ignoring red flags, they risk being taken advantage of. It is not that they are weak, in fact, they are incredibly strong to keep loving in spite of pain but their compassion can blur into self-sacrifice if they are not careful.

This is why Venus in the 12th so often struggles with self-worth. They may not recognize their own beauty, or dismiss compliments as flattery. Love, to them, feels like something they must earn by giving endlessly, rather than something they inherently deserve. And yet, paradoxically, they are some of the most naturally magnetic people. Their beauty is not always obvious in a conventional way, it’s not the polished kind of glamour, but it is haunting, timeless, and unforgettable. People are drawn to them without always knowing why, sensing their depth, their mystery, and their subtle sensuality. Lovers are intrigued, yet often baffled, because Venus in the 12th radiates an allure that cannot be fully possessed.

Socially, these natives tend to be more reserved, possibly shy, preferring intimate settings over large crowds. They may be perceived as loners, but this is not necessarily because they dislike people, it's rather that they need solitude to recharge, to retreat into their private world. In social settings, they can oscillate between being deeply charming and strangely absent, as though part of them is always elsewhere. They give off an aura of secrecy, which both fascinates and confuses others. Friendships are important, but they often keep part of themselves hidden, revealing their true heart only to those they trust completely. In endings (whether friendships or romances) Venus in the 12th tends to leave quietly, often choosing withdrawal over confrontation. They dislike drama, but their silence can mask deep inner turmoil. Heartbreak cuts them profoundly, and they may spend years replaying old loves, unable to let go fully. Their danger lies in idealization: holding onto the fantasy of someone long after the reality has faded.

Yet, despite the pain this placement often endures, it carries an extraordinary gift. Venus in the 12th is capable of the most unconditional love. Where others put boundaries, they dissolve them. Where others grow hardened, they remain soft. Their love is cosmic, timeless, and transcendent. This is a love that exists beyond bodies, beyond circumstances, beyond lifetimes. When they learn to direct that love inward, when they recognize that they themselves are worthy of the tenderness they so freely give to others, they become almost untouchable. They discover that the temple they are always searching for in others has always existed within.

The pros of this placement are their artistry, their compassion, their otherworldly charm, and their ability to see beauty where others cannot. They attract people who are moved by their softness, their mystery, and their generosity. They are capable of deeply spiritual partnerships that feel like a merging of souls. The cons are the tendency toward secrecy, self-sabotage, and idealization. They may attract broken or unavailable partners, repeat karmic cycles, or endure betrayal. They may hide their feelings so deeply that no one realizes they are in love until it is too late.

Ultimately, Venus in the 12th is not cursed. It is simply complex. It asks the native to learn discernment, to balance compassion with self-protection, and to stop confusing sacrifice with love. It is the placement of the dreamer, the artist, the quiet saint, the secret romantic. It teaches that love is not about losing yourself in another person’s shadow, but about recognizing that you are the light in the first place. And once a Venus in the 12th native truly realizes their worth, their capacity for love transforms from a source of sorrow into a source of divine power. They become what they were always meant to be: the hidden treasure at the bottom of the ocean, glittering in the dark, waiting to be discovered not by someone else, but by themselves first.

‧˚₊꒷꒦︶︶︶︶︶꒷꒦︶︶︶︶︶꒦꒷‧₊˚⊹

This took me so long to write oml. OH MY DAYS. As I am writing this, it’s 3:51 AM and I have not slept. Wellllll…..anyway, i hope you guys like this lol. I didn’t really re-read much of this, I tried editing as I typed so I apologize for any oddities. NOW, i leave you with a quote from a persons blog that has really stuck to me for a long time:

“I think there are different types of love. There’s the kind of love that is like a routine, something that you get used to. You’re comfortable with it, and it’s something good for you, so why lose it, right? …But then, there’s the kind of love which is complicated, and it may hurt and drive you crazy sometimes, but at the end of the day it’s all raw passion and true love. This is the kind of love soul-mates share, and something like that never goes away. When you’re old and thinking back to the good old days, you aren’t going to think about your routine love, you’re gonna think about that raw passion you shared with someone.”

Ty to whoever wrote that, I forgot the blog name lol- I just had it saved in my notes.

-Alix is DEAD (✿◡‿◡)

DIDNT FIND YOUR HOUSE? LOOK AT PART ONE: https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1927756