christmas

i really wanna come out to my family this christmas, they already know about my queerness and now i want them to know i'm trans and non-binary. i want them to use my correct name + pronouns, and i know its might feel weird at first, but i don't want it ever to feel stupid or as if i am attention-seeking. but on the other hand, i'm too scared to tell them. my mom will probably be okay with it, but my dad will most likely not. i've heard of him countless times talking about how non-binary people are bullshitting their own identities and how using they/them doesn't make sense etc. both of my parents were ok when i originally came out as bisexual in 2016 (i identify just as queer now) but i feel like things are gonna be different if i come out as trans.