why being a bad person is normalized??

why being a bad person is so normalized?? both irl and online; everyone is acting ableist, sexist, homofobic, racist and n4z! these days, i'll give some examples, these are mostly online (mostly tiktok too):

1- sometimes when i doom scroll on tiktok i sometimes come across videos from 2020-2023 that i've seen b4, i open the comments and see just buch of people hating for literally no reason even tho the comment i remember back when the video released was positive

2- im kinda involved in punk scene so one time i wanted to do ladder lacing and searched the meaning of the colors (i knew but to make sure), at some point i saw videos of people saying "lace code is dead" while wearing white and red lace on their docs or some people reacting to videos that say "lace code being dead doesn't excuse white red lace" and reaction video wearing red and calling the other person "gay" (if you don't know, in some places red means n4z! supporter and white means white supremacy), i've seen some people argue it also means anarchy (which is true in some places) but it still doesn't excuse the insults and bully behivor

3- alot of people both online and irl are so ableist and bully disabled and mentally ill people for no reason, i also hate when people see someone do smth stupid and say "are you autistic?", like sorry? autistic people are NOT stupid

4- im tired of seeing r4p3 jokes on posts talking abt women sa rates, or when men would jump and say "men can get sa'ed too", yeah buddy we are fighting for everyone but you only acknowledge men sa when a women talk about their experience, u r just using that as an excuse to unvalidate someone

5- people asking for "straight month" is so funny, like dude you have all the year for urself and we have ONE THING and ur jealous? like a spoiled kid seeing someone celebrating their birth day. they also say "we don't get enough presentation in media", you were since the last two centuries, let us have some decades at least

there is MUCH MORE, but im kinda tired so yeah