"I want a nerdy BF!" = "I want a goth GF!"

i genuinely think they're equivalent, at least when they're being said by a girl or guy who's just there to goon

like, for nerdy boys, people from what I've seen don't give a fuck about the actual interests, people just like the idea of a nervous and shy guy. and when people are called out for just picking out attractive examples they don't go on to elaborate about how they care about the interests they just say "hey no no I like the not attractive ones too!!!!!"

for goth GF, it's a similar thing; people who want a goth gf just for the sake of it don't really care about the goth subculture, they just want someone who's hot. literally show them any slightly alt woman and they go "HOLY SHIT!! GOTH MOMMY!! HUMINA HUMINA!!!" when they might not even fit under gothic subculture 

am I cooking with this one or am I bonkers 


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livi

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I always get called goth by men and get sexualized when im not even CLOSE to goth. I just wear black and a ton of eyeliner its so disgusting and annoying


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Solaie 0f Astora

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yeah you cooked with this, nice


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lanaaa

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That's actually so true and then people don't realise that what they say is kinda "wrong" until we show them the "real" side of it (no hate to people actually liking this style just my opinion)


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~Kodi~

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wait! ur lowkey cooking. i hate that i get put into a group with these gooners bc i want a goth gf but like not bc why they do. i just think goth girls are really really cool


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HeyItzAtlas

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They say it until I want to stay up to research abstract concepts like string theory and theoretical science/non observational science


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Emily

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this so true bro like i been saying the same thing


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Ramora

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Everyone wants a nerd bf untill im ranting about the diffrent types of guitar pick ups and how goth came to be a thing


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I don't want a nerd bf but as some1 who dose that cool, *collects quietly*

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jasmin୭˚. ᵎᵎ

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i love this take so bad oh my days.


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idkmannn

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I lwk have a crush on nerdy girls a lot lwk so I feel misrepresented by these ppl it genuinely pmo sm like with


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𝒩𝒶𝓎𝒶𝒽

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For my personally with nerdy guys I love listening to them talk about their interests and I most times try to learn a thing or 2.it really does depend on the person


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Leite Vencido

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They all say this until i start talking about my random interests


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ashspace ♂

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true!! real nerds are actual losers XD (self sabotage)


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psshhhhh yeah like nerds are stinky and gross and I hate them (i am going to be executed for treason in 5 days.)

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