even if he is genuinely hurting, he cant threaten suicide to manipulate you to stay without repercussions. that isnt okay, that isnt cool. tell him that its his responsibility to get help for his suicidal feelings, not yours. without knowing the full situation i cant confidently say "leave him, hes abusive". but i CAN confidently say that he's in the wrong for this, and you DO NOT have to put up with it. at the very least, tell him that this behavior is inexcusable and you wont put up with his manipulation. if he doesnt stop, or if he makes you feel bad for not falling for it, yeah, dump him
girl run been on this situation before, he definitely did not kill himself lol, more use this phrase as manipulation, the relationship left me traumatized. i wish u luck girl
LEAVE!! trust me i had a bf who did this and it left me fucking destroyed i suggest u run b4 it's too late. highly likely he's not gonna do a thing but just to be sure if u know any of his relatives let them know asap otherwise just actually leave. he's not ur obligation nor will u be responsible for what he does 2 himself. i wish u luck
Sounds like a very manipulative thing to say. Ultimately none of us know your relationship better than you do so this is your own judgement to make, but on its own I'm wary when people say these things
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PauPetal
That's emotional manipulation. Stay away at all costs.
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even if he is genuinely hurting, he cant threaten suicide to manipulate you to stay without repercussions. that isnt okay, that isnt cool. tell him that its his responsibility to get help for his suicidal feelings, not yours. without knowing the full situation i cant confidently say "leave him, hes abusive". but i CAN confidently say that he's in the wrong for this, and you DO NOT have to put up with it. at the very least, tell him that this behavior is inexcusable and you wont put up with his manipulation. if he doesnt stop, or if he makes you feel bad for not falling for it, yeah, dump him
jin—bug
girl run been on this situation before, he definitely did not kill himself lol, more use this phrase as manipulation, the relationship left me traumatized. i wish u luck girl
Zizi
LEAVE!! trust me i had a bf who did this and it left me fucking destroyed i suggest u run b4 it's too late. highly likely he's not gonna do a thing but just to be sure if u know any of his relatives let them know asap otherwise just actually leave. he's not ur obligation nor will u be responsible for what he does 2 himself. i wish u luck
lem.iso
if he does lose you, i guarantee he wont kill himself. he is just manipulating you to stay with him
Luke
yes 100%, it wont get better but worse. run girl
Landon Smith
It sounds controlling based on what you said. "he will kill himself"
Has he actively done anything that's noticeably controlling of him? (If you're not comfortable with sharing, I understand.)
He has, not trying to promote myself but i say it in my other blogs (´ー｀´)
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For your own safety, I would advise that you get away from him.
I understand I'm just a stranger on SpaceHey, but I'm telling you, it's for your own safety.
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Blair
Sounds like a very manipulative thing to say.
Ultimately none of us know your relationship better than you do so this is your own judgement to make, but on its own I'm wary when people say these things