Homosexual Men And Society

I'm insanely tired of men not being able to interact with each other affectionately without being assumed to be a homosexual couple, whether that includes hugging, holding hands, or lying on the other's shoulder. Society has conditioned men to not be able to actually interact with each other whatsoever, and it's so annoying to me.

Not long ago, I was watching a video that showcased a beautiful museum full of people whom the creator was showing until they showed these two men sitting together, the other laying his head on the other man's shoulder as they stared at the artifacts. I didn't mind it because it's normal, nothing new, just two regular men sitting down and enjoying their time in the museum. 

I open the comments to see people, girls, screenshotting the two and settling them down in the comments for others to see and like, disagree even. They were calling them gay, cute, couples. I was weirded out by this, as they could have been siblings, family, or just friends. It honestly irked me to my limit. I think some girls have mostly over-hyped gay men because of yaoi, homosexual nudity, writing..

They have forgotten that they are human as well, and that's all they have seen them as, honestly; something to stare and idolize as if they haven't seen two men being affectionate before. 

However, it isn't just girls, it's also boys who do this, too, except they don't idolize it. Instead, they belittle those men/boys who are affectionate or doing an action beyond someone else's limit. This could be cuddling, snuggling to be comfortable around a male friend, putting their legs over the other, or sharing food. All of these actions are completely normal and should be normalized. If girls can do it, then why can't boys? If women can do it, then why can't men? I wanted to share this because it's too insane to go frantic or excited over a same sex relationship UNLESS they aren't allowed; illegal. 

Another example would be Lukz & Jakob from TikTok, a known young gay couple who would play Block Blast on separate accounts, talking about each other affectionately or sexually. Once again, mostly girls were fed into their content because they're gay boys, and that's all. Nothing to relate to, just vulgar storytimes that they saw as "secluded entertainment".

After a few months, people were suspicious about Lukz's content because he was a minor and presenting his and his boyfriend's sexual actions together on the internet, leading to controversy. Lukz posted a suicide video; of course, his audience went buttshit crazy because they didn't have MLM content to fantasize about. A few weeks go by, and it turns out that both of the accounts were created by a singular minor who was a girl. 

It's blunt that women and girls romanticize and idolize MLM relationships, and it's honestly so disgusting. Gay men are human, too. They have feelings, a brain, and thoughts. They're not people to "goon" to, read, or watch. I feel like this goes for men as well when it comes to lesbian relationships.