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Guys stereotypes hurt so much.Β
And everyone thinks im a girl. it really hurts my feelings when somebody calls me gay or a girl or transgender "ftm" because im not?? and i get weird questions from RANDOM people all the time like what is in my pants or if i'm transgender. they wonder these things mainly because of my voice, but also because i wear makeup and enjoy "girly" things or had a girly childhood ONLY BECAUSE i grew up around women. and the way i talk i'm trying to work on, aswell as lowering my voice, because i have a female speech pattern that really pisses me off and throws people off.
Just in case you guys didnt know, I dont have an adams apple. that's just a quick fact for you. its kinda given me major complications with friendships..Β i lost so many friends i had when i was a kid (that were all boys) and kinda most of my 'popularity' with the boys as i grew older because i express myself in dark clothing and wear makeup. who wants to be around a guy like that, right?? and he doesnt play sports or are an absolute master in IT?! Who is this guy, right?!
I am NOT a girl, and i am NOT transgender. Hell, even my mom will joke that im not a boy because i wear makeup and take an interest in fashion and when she needs to select my sex in a school or medical form she jokes that i'm not a male and it stabs me in my heart. i dont know why it hruts so much to be told i'm not a boy. but it just does. and I really don't like it.\ And in public Ive had people tell me i'm using the wrong bathroom or give me weird looks when I walk into MY FUCKING GENDER'S BATHROOM. it breaks my heart.
And because of my humor, people question or wonder if i'm a girl. "Just usually boys are dry and have bad humor and stuff.." So we're saying ALL boys can't have humor or be not dry without being gay or a girl or a transgender boy? Ok.... Sure. that also hurts my feelings. Like sorry I don't like play sports or be really good with computers.Β I still am a boy, I still have the soul of a boy, I still have the parts of a boy, I am a boy. I just feel like I have to put it out there that I'm a BOY. I AM A MAN. because clearly people don't get that through their heads.
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I feel you, like... itΒ΄s impossible not to care about it, but I am almost sure that they do that because they enjoy if or when you get angry, so thatΒ΄s the matter to "solve" maybe :/
yes
by fartmaster420(Kyle); ; Report
Zmoney21
OMG that's so stupid! I can't beleive this is a thing honestly like you're just a guy tryna live life and people are accusing you of being transgender and/or gay!!??? im so sorry you gotta deal with this people can be real biggots if YOU don't fit in THEIR personal check boxes
i dont get it bro really
by fartmaster420(Kyle); ; Report
crimson π
"transphobia doesn't only discriminate against cis people" this is the perfect example bro and i'm so sorry you're going through this shit < / 3 don't change yourself for other people dude, it's a slippery slope to go down once you start. set boundaries and stay safe! ^^'
yes im trying
by fartmaster420(Kyle); ; Report
afflebet
"i express myself in dark clothing and wear makeup. who wants to be around a guy like that, right??"
MEEEE!! guys like u r sooo much cooler than normies imo
Alternative styles appear so popular and trendy online, but in person, there is like nobody.Because people like us, we have to hide away so we don't get harassed for being ourselves and expressing ourselves.
by fartmaster420(Kyle); ; Report
in person there may not b a lot because of where u live! i know there's not a lot of scene/emo people down here, but i do what i do nonetheless! :P
by afflebet; ; Report
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iii think theyre fucking stupid ! also oh my god who gives a shit ur cooler than them anyway. fuck them xD
it just hurts my feelings. its hard to not care about something like that. it dosen't make me feel like i'm even a person.
by fartmaster420(Kyle); ; Report