Before I get mad at someone or something, I pause to think if this dramatic event will be something I'll laugh about when I'm an adult, something ridiculous that I did in the next 10 years. When I decide that it'll be one of those small moments, I just let it go.
For example, you know when things like rough teasing and things that make you feel embarrassed/stressed are just animated as something silly and funny in some animes? They animate/draw the expressions like it's not supposed to show how the event is actually serious, it's supposed to represent just a normal shenanigan. So whenever I'm being taunted I try to imagine it like that so I don't take it too seriously. I want to be someone people can have fun around.
if i ever do something embarrassing, I move on because in no way is someone going to remember that when they have a wife and kids and when they get a job. Mostly, but I won't even know that person. I'll probably forget about them, so the moment was just something that happened. No big deal.
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