Such an angry person

I dont get it it's like I can't ever say or do the right thing what are they even angry about? It's not me it's been so many years we barely ever even talked since 2015 and it took so long for them to finally read my message from earlier this year I feel more like im being made a target for their anger about somthing else it's felt this way since 2020 I think maybe it's cuz i represent their old life? A version of themselves they've been running from idk i guess idc to know I just wish they can find their happiness one day