i HATE polyamorous hate

Im ambiamorous, i dont really have a preference 4 poly over mono, but ive never been in a poly relationship before cause im currently in a monogamous one, and finding 1 good person to date is hectic on its own, try 2 or 3.. anyway 

WHY DO SO MANY PPL HATE POLYAMORY???

Top 10 worst experiences: having 2 follow the hate train of polyamory in a social setting so i dont get shunned

I cant even tell ppl im poly cause its worse than telling a straight guy ur gay instead of "oh u wanna date me" its gonna turn into "u wanna date US" 

Im upset cause it feels taboo 2 talk abt when its literally a vanilla ass relationship dynamic, just more people, and since it taboo 2 talk about 4 some reason my mind festers with little polyamorous demons-

Of course im not a demon tho and i would never disrespect my monogamous partner for my own desires, but i just wish ppl could gush about romantic trio date stuff just like how monogamous dynamics r gushed abt in media

I feel like the hate is from lack of positive representation, woth movies like hall pass and shows like you me her, its not good representation and packages polyamory like its some sort of relationship cheating exploit or a kink thing

When i say im poly i mean all my partners are partners, i love and trust all of them, there is no secrecy, i feel like when ppl think of poly they think 'my bf and someone else' and its not like that at all 

Anyway thats all, just wanted 2 spew my ideas abt hate towards smth i rlly enjoy ✌︎('ω')✌︎