"i'm not like the other transgenders!!!!!"

i really hate trans folk who are like "erm.. i'm on of the good ones!! unlike those crazy they/thems! i voted 4 trump!! PICK ME PICK ME PICK ME!!". good job actively destroying the community guys..
When i say "i'm not like many of the other trans folk i know" it's because i consider myself more... lowkey?  i am open about it if someone asks but i'm no too loud about it and.. i just personally prefer not to talk about it unless its to educate someone. and of course i'm okay with people who are loud about it, i just don't like the attention it brings to me. i like being in the corner reading a book (comic, lol) i don't consider being trans as a huge part of my identity, i mean.. it's just gender and there's more to life than gender idek. unfortunately talking about trans stuff can make me super anxious, i'm afraid of how other people will react. i admit i have some internalized issues i need to get through. and man.. i suck at standing up for myself!! ughh
Also if someone tries to debate me about trans identity.. i'll just walk away. i'm not good at debating and i don't like debating. trans people don't owe you a debate, fuck head!