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I hate it when I tell someone something about me and instead of processing it and trying to understand who I am as a person they do this instead.
"Maybe you haven't tried the right type?" 🤓
Like.. would you tell someone who's scared of heights if maybe they haven't just met the right height<or offer to push them off the right cliff> no you won't so why choose me to test out your theories bro.
Don't get me wrong if there are somethings that if you say maybe you haven't tried the right <insert whatever random thing> I wouldn't be irritated.
But whenever I tell people I'm not straight or I'm asexual or sex adversed. THEY JUMP INTO TELLING ME I HAVENT BEEN BONED BY THE RIGHT PERSON.
<Lord have mercy on my precious soul>
It's like they don't want to belive that I am and they are trying to make excuses for me on my behalf like hello babe I didn't ask.
Or they say how can you be asexual and make dirty jokes.
Or you're too dirty minded to be asexual
A girl can't have a working brain anymore!!!
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Maria
I thought I was asexual for a time (pretty sure I was just severely depressed blah blah) but i completely understand where you're coming from. Just remember that you're valid and they're mostly just ignorant of what you personally experience. I understand hearing the same dumb advice is frustrating but you really shouldn't put any energy into listening to it from someone that doesn't have an idea what they're talking about. At the end of the day you're still gonna be you and you're still gonna be awesome
Aww thank you so much for understanding love and light
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And I hope your mental health is better as well
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