So basically its been the first two weeks of school officially and oml has sh¡t hit the fan guys. She basically wrote me 4 letters + an old “anniversary” gift which i gave away, and now shes threatening to unal¡ve herself etc and me and a mutual friend are reporting her + the screenshots of her saying stuff like that.

Context

Its not even genuine imo, she only seems to want to talk about her Są and ideations to the point where it just feels like a casual conversation to her, this isnt me trying to down play her trauma’s but it gets to a point where its hard to feel sympathy for her. Ive had similar experiences as her and when we were dating i told her MULTIPLE times that i did not feel comfortable with topics like that and that if she needed real help then she needed to call a hotline or go to an actual professional. Fyi we were both 15 during this.

I’ve suggested actually help what feels like a million times just for her to berate me about how IN HER WORDS “the past is the past” and “i dont believe in therapy” and i was the fool for stressing over issues that no CHILD should have to hear or try and feel obligated to help with. Our mutual friend is also the same age as us and talks more with my ex than i do, from the screenshots and what shes told me in the past + her own words, she (the ex) only talks with her about her trauma CONSTANTLY and its been taking a toll on our mutual friend. Shes also told her and set up boundaries so that the traumatic info shes constantly dumping doesn’t take as much of a toll on her as it already is.

Future updates (?)

I will be reporting her on Tuesday as thats when i go back to school but i have a ton going on between work, school, and my trade program but i will try and update yall on what happens after the report or if my ex says anything between now and after the report but like i said in my last one, i want to keep things as anon as possible even though i highly doubt amyone who knows me or ex or said mutual friend will find this its just a pro caution. Especially since this is pretty heavy topics and situations etc