boyfriend part prt6

being fr, if you check my blogs one of them talk about him already saying that

by mochacao; 1756491197; Report

okay thats some weird fing behaviour and lowkey a red flag. I looked at the other posts and I think u should communicate ur feelings to him of not feeling like he's meeting u halfway or that u feel like certain things are unfair (like him being jealous of u for having male friends but he has female friends).

Communication is important and if u feel like something is lacking or if u're upset u should feel like u can talk to ur bf about it. Even jealousy u should be able to communicate it without feeling bad for it. But try to approach it calmly so u can communicate ur emotions effectively and also because some ppl may feel like theyre being attacked and clam up or become defensive, even if that isnt ur intention. *If u dont feel safe to talk to him, that u might actually get harmed, that should be a sign that this isnt a good relationship and that u need to leave somehow.

If he isn't going to change even after talking with him, like he's not even trying or that IF he does try, he goes back to his old ways in a few days-weeks, then I'd reevaluate the relationship and whether or not this is worth it. He is showing some major red flags, like u should be able to have friends male or not. He is showing some controlling behaviour that may get worse in the future and u dont want to deal with that or how it can negatively impact ur mental health.

Try to find some friends too either way, u need a support system other than him (which doesnt seem that good anyway). No matter what relationship, familial, platonic, romantic, if they wont let u have ppl to lean on other than them, then that is a bad sign and u should be worried. These sorts of ppl depend on u not having anyone else to depend on and therefore are able to manipulate u and use u more. They may not do it consciously, but it will still impact u negatively and cause u harm. Avoid this trap if u can, it's for ur own safety mentally or physically.

Either way, I wish u well!

by ✮ Jay ✮; 1756492743; Report

Thank you so much for this comment, i kept it saved, i wish i had a supportive family or anything. but i'll keep your advices thank you so much :3!!

by mochacao; 1756544975; Report