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I have really low amount of male friend's and that's why

I’ve always been fascinated by women—their beauty, the fact that they can literally create life and just how amazing they are in general. I respect women so much. That’s why it honestly disgusts me when I meet guys whether at school or in my neighborhood or wherever and like 90% of them act like women are somehow beneath them. They think just being born male automatically makes them better, and it’s so gross.

Another thing I notice a lot these days is how many guys are super insecure especially because of social media. Everyone’s obsessed with “looksmaxing” and all that. And honestly, the issue isn’t even that they care about how they look it’s why they care. Most of them are doing it just to impress women. And okay, sure, wanting to look good is fine. But when you have no real personality and your whole identity is just “will this impress girls?” that’s the problem.

Like instead of saying, “Oh, I like this shirt, this feels like me,” they’ll say “Nah, that’s gay” or “That’s not masculine enough” or “Girls won’t like it.” It’s like… who cares? Be yourself Find your own style Build who YOU are for YOU, not for approval When you do that, you’ll naturally attract the kind of women (and people in general) who actually vibe with the real you.

I think male mind might begin thinking about what will make me more desired by woman when they doesn't have good sexual control or drive, so it effects there day to day life view and daily decisions and sadly where I live there is a lot of shity mindsets.


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chavi

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I've no idea of male brain and mindset in real life because I am almost completing school but always been in an all girls and yes I agree women are amazing because they feel so much like home and comfort I mean most as I know and talking about extra curriculars I've been in plenty but barely ever talked to a real guy because I don't know what their brain is like I can't predict even a bit so I'm always shy. I am honestly a little scared for college because there will be humans of all genders and I won't know a thing about half the population there.


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Hannibal

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I get what you mean bro. My best friend since 2016 is a woman and she's honestly the best human i've ever gotten to know.

But its like whenever i talk to anyone about her and mention shes a women suddenly its all the "So are y'all dating?" "Did she friendzone you?" blah blah blah its like, are you really that stupid? I tell you shes my sister and THATS the conclusion you make??


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felix_74

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dont worry bro we are on same state. i also have low male friends, but the fact that they are also interested with girls so much later on.........🥀

damn i dont have any real life friends that i can have normal human interaction lol


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ミ★ 𝘕𝘢𝘺𝘢 ★彡

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honestly as a woman I find guys who think their looks are everything tacky and weird. I love nerdy timid guys and anyone with a PERSONALITY. this is so true <3


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I mean't nerdy guys as in personality wise. not looks as I said, I love everyone long as you have a good personality!

by ミ★ 𝘕𝘢𝘺𝘢 ★彡; ; Report

coming from someone who's cartoon crush is megamind...

by ミ★ 𝘕𝘢𝘺𝘢 ★彡; ; Report

I also like nerdy guys :3

not like nerd-incel guys but like

nerdy guys yk ? :)

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YEAH IKKK

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