(I didn't know what to name this but this is just me yaping and I hope you might get some of it😅)
So I have many awesome friends who have different styles of fashion and how they see them self like one is a theiran,a part if the LGBTQ+ community,a scene kid and the list goes on.but for some reason my mom want me to be like every other black girl(yes im black what a surprise)and she always says "oh you will want to marry someone" but im scared and im aroace but I never told her and she always says(and if this offends anyone im so sorry)she says "white people do the most weirdest things" and I think thats rude and plus she doesn't even care about me checking on my friends if they are ok mentally and plus I don't think she would even let me dress differently like....idk like goth or something(I wanted to try it out one day)and plus everyone in my town are basic and never found anyone interesting.
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ian
it can be like that. some people can be very resistant to change or anything remotely different from what they're used to. you should try figuring out your tastes and styles because you deserve it! if you think it's not safe to try out other things then you might have to wait till you're older :/ or until you find someone you can be more "you" around
AmoxicillinClavulanatePotassium
as someone who is half white and black, i understand that a lottttt
i dunno why but a lot of my black relatives/friends i used to know always had to stay in a societal "norm" like they couldn't act certain ways because they were black..? It always confused me and it feels like we are limiting ourselves for no reason!
You should always be able to find out what you like though! It takes a bit but I bet if you try out new things you'll find out eventually :3