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My (Def Controversial) Opinions

(Before beggining, just know I talk a lot abt sexual subjects and harsh topics in general. If you're not comfortable with that pls dont read, this wont be a pleasant list) 

And also, I just know im gonna piss a lot of people off. I don't mind. I never thought about my opinions being wrong. 

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I dont like anti depressants. I think people are depressed bcs the world is shit, not bcs their brains are broken. 

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I HATE cucks. I think its one of the most discusting fetishes that exist. Anyone, in any position of that dynamic, I hate them all for different reasons, and I always feel rage when I hear someone is a "cuck". Have some self-respect. 

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I don't like women who make fun of d sizes, especially since its mostly an idea from porn that big dicks are better than average or small ones. Also it reinforces toxic masculinity and stupid gender norms put on men. 

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Guys with big dicks don't really deserve to reproduce and a big dick is an evolutionary mistake, in my opinion. It will almost always hurt your partner, and you have to focus more on NOT hurting the other person instead of both of u feeling good. 

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Men are taught to not practice empathy or intelligence at all and its fucking annoying. And that should chance. Bcs most of them are not smart enough to learn things outside of the societal rules on gender, and outside of what parents taught them. So the chance should start with the parents, first and foremost. 

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No, being a boy is not an excuse to make a toilet dirty when you pee. Learn how to fucking pee or sit down. Gross and immature. 

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Boys who use humour when someone is angry or serious shouldn't date or even have friends sometimes if you ask me. You dont care about the fact that you hurt someone so much they got angry. You're not good for a relationship. 

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Men should not top if they have a big dick, IF they never tried taking a dildo the size of their dick before. Wanna top so badly? Develop some empathy. (A lot of opinions on this topic, sorry I just hate it sm) 

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I don't like femboys who dress like any other dude in their day to day life. Ok, not like every other dude, but like dudes that just have mysoginy written all over them, the way they're dressed. I mean, I like femboys BECAUSE they are fem, in clothing or personality. If you're gonna dress up like an incel when you go outside, then you're not attractive at all anymore, bcs you lose that something special that femboys have, expressing feminity as a boy. I'm not saying to go out in a skirt, but shouldn't your mundane outfits look like something that an incel WONT wear? If you're dressing like that and only put on skirts inside your house to take photos to post online, it sounds like a fetish to me. Sorry not sorry. You shouldn't feel bad abt dressing in a cute way when you go outside. I think its great, that you can let people know you're out of the norm, bcs you'll attract others that are not in the norm. Clothes should be used as an expression of how someone is. 

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I think some femboys and a lot of people that like femboys are mysoginistic. Bcs they hate on women sm just to praise femboys. Which is funny bcs femboys do experience things women do too, like harrasment from men. So really, the femboy lovers, many of them? Mysoginists. You cant tell me you never heard a man say "women bad, but femboys good". Not to mention its usually the "straight men" saying that too btw. But for a femboy to be a mysoginist is geniunely retarded. We're the same. We experience the same things.

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Being mean to any other girl other than ur gf doesn't make you a good bf, or hot, or loyal. It just makes you an asshole. I think it means you just treat women like shit unless they're hot. You're a mysoginist. 

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People that ragebait are sadists. And I dont fw non-consendual sadists.

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I think Griffith deserves to be r4ped, an eye for an eye, as you will, but its weird as hell to joke abt when he was r4ped at 16, bcs back then he DIDN'T do anything. You're joking about a kid. He was a victim back then. 

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Saying "this is unhealthier than porn" is dumb af. Esp when its someone just memorizing brainrot terms or something harmless like that. There are VERY FEW THINGS that are unhealthier than porn, very few. 

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I think that those people that draw ugly caricatures of bad people, like jerks, conservatives, stuff like that, are childish and dumb. Bcs yea its ok to make fun of a bad person, but not about their appearance. Bcs what do you do when some innocent person that looks like them sees the video? Boom now they have low self esteem abt their appearance. Great fucking job. Insulting someone's appearance is childish and just shows that you dont have arguments.

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Any guy that says he would do OF or porn stuff if he was a woman, doesn't see women like people. Because you dont see him want to do sex work as a guy, but imediatly says he wants to do it as a woman. Why? Because they only see women as sexual objects most likely, and not humans. They see themselfs as a human as a guy, but if they imagine they're a girl, they also imagine they will just be sluts, bcs they dont have enough empathy to actually imagine being a woman. And when you tell them that they can do sex work as guys too, they tell you "No one would watch a guy, I wouldn't make enough money" And when you tell them a lot of men DO make money and A LOT of people watch them, they'll either say no or something like "Yeah but only creepy men would look at me". Oh wow, what a surprise, you care about being sexualized as a man, but not as a woman. What a self report. 

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CNC as the abuser is more acceptable as a woman than as a man. Bcs men already do all of that already, and theirs isn't derived from trauma. If I see a woman have a CNC kink, I'll guess its because of sexual trauma, but if I see a man saying that, I just know its bcs society nornalized you r4ping women in general. Not everyone fits that box, but you wont see me think kindly of a man that fantasizes about r4ping women. 

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Controvercial opinion but i think that if fiction about illegal acts stops people from actually doing it irl, then its ok. Stuff like pedophilia or rape, can exist for these people to help them never do it to people irl, tho they should not be mainstream. The problem with rape stories, is that they're everywhere. They should exist only in places that are not mainstream so no potential victim sees them. Bad people are gonna exist, and its always a good idea to use fake things to satisfy their desires, rather than actual humans. 

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I treat men that display stereotypical "feminine" traits better than other men. Cause there's millions of them that are masculine, and verrryy rarely there's men that step out of that narrative, so it feels like a novelty and it's very attractive. Things like this are: taking a long time in the shower, caring a lot about hygeine and looking good, caring about being pretty, but also not caring if women are pretty bcs they should care about their personality and soul more, liking to clean or doing it everyday even if they don't like it, being gentle, being calm, and quiet, being vulnerable in intimacy instead of trying to appear tough, caring about animals and having a lot of empathy in general etc. Basically anything that a woman is forced to do by others, i think it's very attractive if men do that instead. And I'll always treat "femininity" in men better than masculinity. 

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This is not an opinion but a fact, someone can hurt you, no matter who they are. A masochist can hurt you emotionally. A depressed person can bully you. A submissive person can manipulate you. A femboy can be a mysoginist just like any other guy out there, even if he doesn't think so, like being a raging porn addict or laughing when his friends call his gf a "bitch". And pretty much anyone you thought can't be dangerous, is able to do so. I wanted to think that the right groups of men weren't able to do things like that, but I was wrong. This is just a warning for anyone that thinks like I used to.

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Misandrisy is not the same as mysoginy. Being opressed as a man and being opressed as a woman are not the same. Fearing that people might consider you a criminal and people that fear they might be victims of criminals are not the same. Stuff hurts, yeah, but understand there's a big gap. I'm a sadist, I know how most people think of that, they're either scared or hate me to death. I know what its like being treated like an evil person. And ykw? I choose that everyday, rather than fearing for my life and dignity, and being treated as a lesser human being by anyone I meet. 

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I know I usually only write these things when im angry, but even when im calm I still think abt them. 



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ch4m ✭

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i'm just curious, why do you think having a dig bick is an evolutionary mistake and why do you think it hurts their partners when they use it?


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NachosFans

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what 15 mins of instagram reels does to a mf


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Actually true. But these are things i also see in real life, so they're not some fake problems

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beril

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"Men should not top if they have a big dick, IF they never tried taking a dildo the size of their dick before. Wanna top so badly? Develop some empathy. (A lot of opinions on this topic, sorry I just hate it sm) "

girl watdahec some people likes to get their ass destroyed so what like who are you to talk about it s the same thing to say something like i dont like people who are doing missionary


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Are you the official mens advocacy lawyer? I literaly dont give a fuck abt whoever wants their shit destroyed. Im saying that men dont even think of the comfort of a woman, and yet they insist on topping so badly

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beril

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"Guys with big dicks don't really deserve to reproduce and a big dick is an evolutionary mistake, in my opinion. It will almost always hurt your partner, and you have to focus more on NOT hurting the other person instead of both of u feeling good. "

u do the same thing with woman who shame small d


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No i dont, lmao. They shame small dihs bcs they think its not "masculine" enough. Because someone at some point said tall men and big dihs are better than those who dont have that. They shame short guys and small dihs bcs they have a warped idea of what masculinity is.

Im shaming them bcs i know men who have big dihs think they are superior than other men, and their ego relays so much on their size that they forget how to have sex properly. They think that having a big dih is enough and that they dont need to be good partners anymore. These kinds of men are the ones that think being a man, and a top makes u dominant in sex, and in day to day life.

Im judging a notion thats rooted in toxic masculinity. And yes its bad, having sex with a big partner makes u more likely to tear and bleed and therefore are at a higher risk of stds. And it hurts, for most people it hurts, and idk if u knew this but sex should never hurt. Have u ever heard women regret doing that? Saying it hurts and they cant feel any pleasure at all. Cause i have. Thats why i say its a downgrade in biology. Anything that makes sex unconfortable in a species, esp the human race, is an evolutionary mistake in my opinion. Sex feels good and thats why humans reproduce. If sex hurt all the time, no one will have it anymore. Why are u judging me for caring abt a womans pleasure in sex?? Tf. If both partners cant feel good, then the sexual act failed.

Penises come and many shapes and sizes, and depending on what u have, u can use dif tehniques to make sex feel good. But someone with a big dick? Has to focus on not causing pain instead of the actual sex. Its ok if some women like big ones, but im saying that NOT ALL WOMEN, are into that or are able to go trough that, not at all. But humans have certain things they deem attractive, and everyone follows those beliefs. So, women who dont even like big dihs think its hot bcs society says so, untill they actually try it.

People think a penis should be big and a womans clitoris be small. Now tell me whyyyy am i against some standards that make women hurt and makes it hard for them to feel pleaure? Maybe next time think abt my statements before judging what i say. The world is not black and white and everything is nuanced. Lets use our brains here.

Oh and btw, milions of people already praise big dicks. Theyll be fine if one person said small ones are better. Trust me theyll be fine

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u got a lil dick ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

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Thanks, but im a girl

by Tir3d.P4p3r; ; Report

people just go along with who they fit with rather than make a complex about it. big for big, small for small, its all about communicating. big for small or small for big is usually for visual content for others to be fooled with while being both aware or unaware of it. thats why men with big dick is more prideful about how big they are because of the industry boosting this idea with lies and fake media. there might be people who's into big for small or small for big but it isnt a symbol for anything, its simply compatibility. thats why big dicks arent also a biological problem.

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Have you considered that maybe, Idk funny thought, maybe I just dont give a fuck? Ofc it goes without saying, anyone can choose whoever they want. But I am allowed to hate on a group of people if their whole idea of themselfs is toxic . And it goes deeper than that, boys are always trying to change and mutilate their fucking body to be accepted by people with fucked up toxic ideas of masculinity already. Try shit so ur dick gets bigger, getting surgery on ur bones so ur taller, going to the gym to get jacked when you DONT WANT TO. Idgaf abt hurting the feelings of men with toxic ideas of masculinity, bcs again, IM ALONE IN THIS, my opinion doesn't fucking matter to those kinds of people, so let me just hate them. Not to mention there are boys who say they have it small, when they DONT, so bcs of this size bullshit, not even women who like small ones can find partners bcs men think their shit is always small, unless its not fucking 30 cm or some bullshit.

You cant really change my opinion regarding anything on this list, but especially this particular topic. I dont gaf abt them and its fun to hate and make fun of them. They'll be fine, I promise

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maybe, just maybe if you read it back, there was never an intention to change any idea of yours. assuming much that i wanna change your mind about this topic? because clearly your idea on this is emotionally invested rather than rational so its not something that can be debated anyway. so yeah, you're allowed to hate on other men for this, i didnt said its not allowed.

and yes they go for extreme measures to fit themselves into a certain norm thats been told and fearmongered so they can feel accepted. just like how certain demographic of women encourage each other to getting thinner or look younger, causing very serious health issues. the only ones who wins from it is the people who sells the idea of we must fit into their beauty standarts otherwise we wont be seen as humans.

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CatsSpats

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So...with the whole antidepressants thing...if someone is depressed because of external factors, and they take antidepressants, which helps them get out of the depression, what exactly is the problem with that? Antidepressants are beneficial for people with depression, no matter where their depression stems from. And obviously everyone will react differently but if it's a tool that's working, why fix it?


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If it helps someone, good for them. But the thing is, in many other ways it DOESN'T help someone. A side effect of antidepressants is being EVEN MORE depressed and suicidal for some time. Besides the others, like not being able to reach orgasm and stuff. I think they definitely need fixing. And not just them, all the pills. People can take them, im just saying i will never do that bcs I think its stupid. They turn the world to shit and then society gets depressed bcs the world is shit, and then they invent pills to make them "fit" better into society. Also, i dont psychiatric hospitals where they describe those things and I think no one should blindly trust them either. Bcs those mfs gave me anti-psychotics when I never had one symptoms of psycosis in my life These are pills you give to Schizofrenia and Bipolar Disorder bcs of mania. I had bpd, with again, not one single psychosis symptomp ever. Not to mention the side effects even mentioned dying, so yk

Its just my opinion, I dont like the thought of giving someone pills just to fit better in ur shitty society. The solution is fixing that society in the first place

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I absolutely agree that they shouldn't be prescribed or taken blindly and without research. Yes, becoming more depressed and having suicidal thoughts can occur in the first few weeks of taking it; however, most people see a lot of improvement after that (and, if a psychiatrist is worth their salt, they'll disqualify you from the meds if you get suicidal thoughts). I'm very sorry you had negative experiences with psychiatric care. That's a huge problem with our healthcare system right now. But that's not everyone's experience.

Also, it's important to note that antidepressants are not just used for depression. I'm taking them for OCD. They're also used for GAD, social anxiety, and eating disorders. We absolutely do need to fix society, and I agree that that would help a lot of people out. But, until that happens, if there's a tool that can get people through, I think that they should absolutely utilize it.

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Good for u. But this is my opinion bcs ME personally, i would never take them

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Okay...sorry I didn't know if the point of this post was to have a discussion or not. Have a good day :)

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JustAlex

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I agree with a third of these now that ive thought about it, especially with the humor in response to someone being angry like cmon if someone is hurt just have a bit of empathy or like at least say youre sorry, I see it a lot. :<


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Its always the immature mfs that did this

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raki

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About jokes from men when you discuss serious topics (I hope I understood what I wrote correctly, everything is translated through a translator) horror. When I feel bad, physiologically or mentally, the last thing I want to do is listen to vulgar jokes about myself. I notice this trait often . here, either I come across such idiots, or I give a reason, хз

I'm not sure I agree with most of your comments. But anyway, well done for speaking out. Всех благ <3


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Thanks, its been something that was bothering me for a while and no one seemed to care or think its a bad thing, but I have a bad feeling abt it and I dont trust those people.

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