my ex and existential pains

I stayed friends with my ex but I started to lose interest but I don't want to be rude. How can I cut off contact?Β He is really a good person but I am starting to get bored while talking and I want to cut off communication without hurting him :(Β If I let time pass, I would have ghosted him. If I wanted to talk to him, I don't have the courage. I don't know what to do T-T


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sitarastar

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honestly just tell him that and be open


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I really want to do this but I don't have the courage anymore. I'm not afraid of hurting him anymore. We've been through a lot together and if I do this now, I'll be the bad guy :(

by louise αΆ» 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ; ; Report

i think being dishonest and talking to him when you dont want to is a lot worse than being straightforward tbh, it doesnt make you a bad person

by sitarastar; ; Report

I guess I'm just shy because of the bond between us

by louise αΆ» 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ; ; Report

idk ToT i would just say its hard to be friedns after ur history together or smth

by sitarastar; ; Report

I can say him that it's hard to be whit him now, Δ°f he's not gonna listen or understand me thats make him the badguy

by louise αΆ» 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ; ; Report