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I want to buy from this brand so badly, its called la Farfa, Its a plus size brand, and its only in Japan!!! Which i easily can by just going on a Japanese proxy site to shop, but like the thing is, most of it is skirts, and dresses, i would love to wear those types of clothing's, who cares if I'm a boy? right? that's where the problem is
I think a lot of trans people can relate to this or even just tomboys or masculine men, Like, You want to wear a clothing that you never worn before, and you always say you're a boy, a man, and stuff but then you slightly present yourself as feminine and all of the sudden your now a girl to everyone's eyes, its almost like saying that's being trans was a phase and that you wearing feminine clothing is like them saying "I told you so", Like, I just can't stand it, those are my biggest fears
SORRY FOR THIS I JUST LOWKEY NEEDED TO GET THIS OFF OF MY MIND... CAUSE ITS BEEN BUGGING ME SINCE LAST NIGHT
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Ser4fIsTired
From what I've noticed it's not only an issue of trans masc folk but also men in general. The line between feminine and masculine in the eyes of general society is incredibly thin, and one "too feminine" trait dooms you to the status of a femboy or being misgendered 4 times a week. I really thought that we got over ridiculing men for having long hair, but apparently we didn't...
For some reason, masculinity has to be "earned" and as such it can be revoked just as easily.
I suppose we just can't have nice things.
This comment reminds me of my stages of passing. First I didn't pass at all, then passed as 4-8 years younger than I actually am, then pass as a femboy, and now I'm waiting for when I'm not seen with some marker emphasizing femininity or . Nothing wrong with those who are comfortable with it; it just feels like pseudo misgendering to me
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Yes! It's just society being sexist or just mean as always
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