I JUST WANT TO BE A PERSON, NOT A MAN NOR A WOMAN FOR GOD'S SAKE

LITERALLY EVERYWHERE I GO THEY ASK THE SAME THING, if I'm a man or a woman, I know that sometimes I look like a woman, other times like a man, but what does that matter to you? Why do you have to ask what I have between my legs? Are you a pervert maybe??? I really would like to be treated for anything sometimes it's difficult, I'm too masculine to be a woman and it makes me uncomfortable, but I'm also too feminine to be a real man, I just want to dress how I like, or look how I like, but if I do it it automatically invalidates me, even my own family, it's annoying that I always have to emphasize what I am WHEN IT'S UNCOMFORTABLE