isthis normal

is it normal for a coworker (at the job uve only been at one week) to invite u out all the time. is it socially acceptable for him to text u an hour ish after teh hangouts over loke "thanks for hanging out w me it helps me with my suicidal thoughts." why would he say that. do they always do this. is this skme evil form of male manipulation bc why would u tell me that. ans sometimes hes loke "sry if im making u unckmfortable u can always tel me to stop" even when i havent said anything of the sort. shouldve lied and told him i was a lesbian and not pan damnit. am i groing crazy ?!?! are men always like this ?!?! do i not talk to them enough ?!?! like we'll literallt be having normal ass conversations irl then online hes being like sorry for being mean... dont hate me... say smtg if u dint wanna hang out.... why r u being like this ?!?!