sex 18+

1757442855

I mean, I do kinda feel left out? But in my opinion i'd rather be older once I do it, mainly for emotional and physical safety. Emotional because, what if they ONLY want sexual intimacy? That would hurt a lot emotionally, because I need a close relationship, and sexual intimacy seems to me like something i'd want to have once I fully trust a person. Physical, because it's risky. While I'm not into men, some women do have parts, and I never really know if someone may be lying to me on a disease test, I could get a STI/STD. I'd rather take those risks later in life ya-know?

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1757440185

sameee i used to feel rlly insecure bout it as i am really sexually confident and a virgin lol, i still am and im gonna be 19 in a few months. i think it's just that we haven't find the right person to have our first experience with! i don't really believe in the consept of virginity but i do believe in the fact that first times are special. don't rush yourself to "keep up" with the others you'll find someone who deserves to be your first and experience it eventually!! luv u

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1757430915

Honestly? Just live your life, don't worry too much about all that stuff. As much as this sounds like a "if your friends jumped off a bridge" thing? It's genuinely just best to live your life and enjoy your youth over worrying about losing your virginity especially at such a young age.

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1757425930

It is not that scary but that changes to your partner what you need is a partner that respects your preferences and choices.I reccommend using protection always.

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1757424380

My partner (we are married) was 26 when he lost his virginity. I was his first everything. His friends poked fun at him from time to time, but it never really bothered him (he told me). Then there is me who wishes they could do it all over and waited (I was 16). Everyone goes at their own pace. Don't sweat it.

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1757412852

Don't be fooled by the majority into thinking sex should be something casual. Make sure you actually love the person first. It should be special, because if it's not with someone you love - it's nothing special.

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1757400257

why did I press this blog on my school chromebook.....

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1757393270

Don't rush it vro, you're not even supposed to get freaky until you're like 20 or smt, thass your choice tho- i ain't eva had zex but I know you need someone you trust and shi to fuck, don't waste it on some random 🥀

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1757393268

Don't rush it vro, you're not even supposed to get freaky until you're like 20 or smt, thass your choice tho- i ain't eva had zex but I know you need someone you trust and shi to fuck, don't waste it on some random 🥀

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1757389350

The one who frets about things makes them come true.

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1757386104

Don’t feel as if you need to rush it, your time will come naturally!

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1757386101

Don’t feel as if you need to rush it, your time will come naturally!

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1757379081

I'm 18 and I'm just now getting into my first relationship and neither of us have any desire to have sex. Our relationship is going completely fine without any of that sort of stuff. Honestly it just depends on what youre comfortable with and what your partner is comfortable with. Be upfront with them at the start so theres no awkwardness throughout the relationship :D

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1757377988

Hi!!(sorry for my bad english) i lose my virginity with 18! This is normal ok?

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1757377600

I'm currently 13, and stress so much about this. About missing out in relationships. I know right now it's not a big deal, but I fear I won't fit in as I get older. I'm not mentally ready, but also please don't force yourself to have something you don't want to do.

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1757369773

I'm right there with ya.. I turned 20 in May and am still a virgin, I'm fortunate enough to have a boyfriend who doesnt mind tho ! But then again we are in an online relationship so I'm not losing it anytime soon x) And despite him comforting me about it i am still very insecure.. like you, all of my friends have lost theirs,, I'm literally what you would call and adult virgin :'') I've talked abt it to my two best friends as well and they keep trying to convince me it's normal and fine but i feel SSOO conflicted, realistically i know nobody cares but personally it feels so disappointing for some reason :/

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1757365291

I'd like to give an asexual's perspective of this!!! You're really not missing much. If anything, you could see sex as more just an accessory of life. It's not really necessary to be content, if you get what I mean. Obviously, there's a whole buncha background stuff happening that I may never understand but yeah no there's no need to rush. 18 is a really milestone age (or so we're told) and as someone who hasn't really done anything "milestoney" as I've aged (sweet sixteen, dated someone, blah blah) it's honestly kinda awesome being able to relax and not really consider the "big things". I'm sure me being ace is making my point a little bit very bias but I feel even if I weren't ace I still might feel the same way. I def understand the "missing out" part cuz sex is such a common topic in college that I feel like my neurons must be firing wrong. Although it's nice not having to worry about getting an STI or getting pregnant and being able to focus on myself and schoolwork. There's no shame in not being like everyone else!!! Of course, this is just me blabbering and the path you may take is totally different but yeah, be true to yourself and if you think something's wrong and you don't wanna do it? Don't be afraid to stop :) all that matters at the end of the day is that you're happy and safe!!

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1757359576

You don't need to rush it. I'm around your age and I don't have a significant other nor sex either. I feel like if you do it for the sake of FOMO, you'll lose the magic.

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1757353572

I went through the same thing. Especially in this day and age sex seems much more common than it used to. When I turned 18 I felt miles behind everyone else my age, but I'm glad that I saved something so important for the right person! I am also MORTIFIED of getting pregnant, however as long as you stay safe (when the time eventually comes that you are comfortable enough with the right person to have sex) than you should have very little to worry about. I know when I first had sex, I was scared the whole month until mt period started, and the only thing that would help me feel better was reaching our for reassurance. And if that's how you end up feeling than it's completely normal. I guess what I'm saying is you aren't a 'loser', and there are more people out there just like you.

this was kinda long, but i hope it could help! >.<

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1757353572

I went through the same thing. Especially in this day and age sex seems much more common than it used to. When I turned 18 I felt miles behind everyone else my age, but I'm glad that I saved something so important for the right person! I am also MORTIFIED of getting pregnant, however as long as you stay safe (when the time eventually comes that you are comfortable enough with the right person to have sex) than you should have very little to worry about. I know when I first had sex, I was scared the whole month until mt period started, and the only thing that would help me feel better was reaching our for reassurance. And if that's how you end up feeling than it's completely normal. I guess what I'm saying is you aren't a 'loser', and there are more people out there just like you.

this was kinda long, but i hope it could help! >.<

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