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Okay, i lowkey need to get my thoughts straight because something happenz yesterday that im not even that mad about when i think i should be. Basically this guy would constantly over analyze everything i say and do and manage to twist it in a way that makes it all about him (in a negative way) It's not okay like wtf. Basically he just removed me from his friends and i'm not even mad about it. He was going on about how i hate him and that i hate hanging out with him just because i am in another server. This isn't true. But telling him that is no use. I truly felt like no matter how i acted or what i said it was always wrong anyway! It was always "You're being too loud, i have cptsd you know." So i adjust and stop acting energetic and engaged to adapt a more relaxed type of tone only for him to turn around and say that "I get the feeling you don't even like hanging out with me, you sound so bored."i'm like nah you're being waay too obvious with everything. Now being straight forward can be a good trait but not when you do it the he does it. If you're trying to be manipulative, you really wanna start working in the shadows my guy. BU7 WH4T3V3RRRR. So i do what i always think is best wich is being honest. 

I told him that the way he tends to constantly overthink and secondguess everything in a bad way is just terrible. I know how he feels because i've been there before. The only difference is that i know how to keep my thoughts to myself while he just says it without considering that it may be too obvious. The problem with being too obvious with your manipulation is that people aren't stupid. They will pick up on it immediatly and point it out if they choose to do so. If they don't then either they really are stupid or are waiting for the right moment to adress it. Either way it causes immediate drama that you're gonna have to deal with. Wich is annoying. Now he causes drama because he doesn't know how to execute this stuff, wich causes everyone to lowkey hate and abandon him and then he just blames it on others rather then idk selfreflecting. It's GG.


This guy... istg i can bet that i'll receive a new friend request from him, and if not... then it's also GG yeah nah, i don't hate him but i'm tired of this shit. It has happened enough that i have grown tired of it.


I'll fucking see ya later


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