MOREE stuff that my ex did

So, apparently, religion wasn't the only reason he had broken up with me. The two other reasons are "talking shit behind his back" and not breaking contact with one of my friends, who had only said that I shouldn't date him. I admit I was talking behind his back, but the thing is that he's a hypocrite. He was talking shit behind my back the ENTIRE time we were together and even while we were talking. The only reason I started talking behind his back and etc is because he was talking behind my back. (calling me ugly and etc) He says that he's " Christian" but makes r*pe and says the n word daily (plus saying really weird ass shit). Which, btw the main reason he broke up with me is because I wasn't religious. I knew I should've broken up with him or rejected him when he asked me out, but I was stuck up his ass at the time and didn't care what he said about me.