i donβt have many friends on this site but like when i accept a request like they never talk to me, i message and then they donβt respond. only a few of my friends iβve actually talked to on here and they usually ghost me after a day or two which makes me kinda sad. i swear im a fun girl
does anyone like actually talk here
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ashton
I think its because spacehey is slower paced. You usually interact more through bulletins and slowly become friends. Friend requests are more like an invitation to be friends and then you just slowly interact more and more through bulletins, and blogs.
Idk, I enjoy how laid back it is here :)
xxombie
tbh its hard to have long convos w ppl on here cus i dont get notifs so i never know when to reply
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I would love to talk on here but nobody messages me:/ even when I try starting the convo
Sylus
I talk on here kinda oftn, but it dpnds on my vibe 4 the day
Gh0ulB0iMas0n
I believe it may be due to the fact it's a site, and you don't get notified unless you actively open the app. I personally find it pretty difficult to stay active on here due to that, since I have to make a conscious effort to log on. And by the time I think about getting back on, I just feel so guilty about 'ghosting' people that it creates an extra mental block T^T I totally understand how annoying it is, and I agree! I just thought I'd share my experience and possible causes for why it may be :3
robyn
omg same!!! im like hello??? where is everybody bro
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Fr, 'nd I'm afraid 2 send a message first and get ignored. LOL like, why do u have Spacehey other than just decorating it? Wasn't this a social network? T-T
nene
I joined this site today, even I'm facing the same problem π₯Ή I'm a 23yo girl, let's be online chat buddies ππ½ππ½
Connor βοΈ
Some people tend to wait for messages rather then send them. That might be the issue since that's the majority of people here lmao. Plus there are friend collectors which usually have 1000+ people added which should be avoided if you want conversation
briiixo
literally same bro like i want some more online friendss
sw4gunicorn
frr i wish ppl could talk and get to know ppl more
missnanai
some people are "friend collector" y'know sending requests to everyone and befriending them without actually interacting with their "friends", but if u want to actually have friends to talk to, I suggest u to read people's blog to find people with the same as interests as u and befriend them. that way, u can talk to them on IM or interacting with them via their blog or bulletins. much better if u guys share a mutual interests, so u guys don't run out of things to talk about. I've done the same thing and yeah I have few friends here I talk to :)) u don't have to necessarily sending IM to them, but commenting on ur friends blog and bulletins is also consider as interacting, but not as deep as a conversation ofc..
Detective
i think most of us are interacting w friends thru blogs and bulls. i've had a short convo with one guy but it didn't go anywhere lol
Snowymuffinz
idk personally i communicate thru bulletins
nishcore
i don't either and i've been on here for quite some time. i think you have to be very active in seeking out friendships in order to find people who are willing to talk.
Dreamcatcher16
I wish SpaceHey could like give a notification when someone text cuz most times I donβt even know when someone messages me until I check
eviie
same 3 i only joined about a week ago tjo