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LONGGGGGGG RANT
typing out my thoughts here bcuz i can. i know literally any sane person knows this but ragebaiters online have successfully pissed me off and i don't want to give them the satisfaction;
do people genuinely believe that's a thing..? ok hold on..now that i am thinking about it, it is probably a thing. entirely self-inflicted. idk why some men online complain about it and not realise how telling the phrase in itself is. you're complaining about the majority of men's inability to form genuine connections to the people around them. yeah? that's the point??
if this "epidemic" is caused by women not engaging in relationships with men then why tf is there no female loneliness epidemic
but "men are more likely to be suicidal" YES?? TALK TO UR HOMIES BRAH
when was the last time you asked your friend how they were doing, when was the last time you gave them a compliment, when was the last time you supported them when they seemed mentally distressed
you can't do any of that? because it's gay?
oh of course, i forgot that:
being there for someone and showing you care = wanting to fuck them
that's right. that's why the nice guy act is dropped the minute she rejects you. you bought her dinner but she refused to let you screw? she's a gold digger and a slut (even though she can literally afford that meal and she REFUSED to have sex; because any woman that doesn't want me must automatically want every other man in the market). she wants a financially stable partner? GOLD DIGGER. she doesn't want kids? SLUT. she doesn't want her life to be reduced to taking care of her husband/kids/etc? GOLD DIGGER. she has tattoos/drinks or smokes? SLUT.
(gross alert) i have seen so many posts saying virginity in women are a sign of purity while in men it implies weakness. brother who are u fucking if all women are virgins.
just say you're ran through mate
and what infuriates me the most is how this affects the men in my life i actually gaf about. sa incidents are never taken seriously so it's never spoken about. depression rates are high and going to therapy is "emasculating". reading books is gay, being outgoing is gay, liking your girlfriend is gay. a guy can't like pink. a fucking colour 💀 that's also gay? liking pink means you want men....who don't like pink and are never associated with pink. do you hear yourself?
true, men are conditioned to not talk about their feelings and the moment someone does, they get ridiculed. they love to bring up men sa cases when women talk about their experiences but then make fun of their classmate who didn't like it when a senior forced themself upon him. men cannot rely on other men for support because it's a woman's duty. sons go to their mothers, husbands go to their wife, brothers go to sisters, lonely men go to prositutes. you don't care about men at all. you care about women caring about men. you want women to live for you, act like mothers, be your emotional baggage, fulfill all desires, feed you, pamper you. you want it to be a man's world.
and people who don't understand this/ think all of this is too woke or feminist propoganda are incredibly privileged.
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i'll stop writing cuz im too overwhelmed rn but i'll keep adding to this entry whenever i have a heated argument with someone abt this lolol
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xxJECKAxx
Hard agree. I hate this discourse so much, first i though it was just a US thing but even in my country there are more and more of these anti-feminist influencers; its like a poison who keeps spreading in the world, destroying without mercy any kind of freedom an progress feminism has created upon last decades.
they have turned feminism into some sort of a controversial buzzword and started to associate it with a concept that's way removed from it's original meaning :( sadly whenever the oppressed speak up about the injustice they experience, people assume they want revenge in equal measure instead of a change in the system
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ga. ☆
you got this completely right. the male loneliness epidemic is bs and it makes me so happy to know how many people refuse to buy into this. the whole point of male loneliness epidemic and mens mental health month is to say.. how can women be oppressed if this same system causes men so much suffering. women have to give us more chances cus we kill ourselves! its no question as to why male loneliness only really popped off after the 4b movement went viral in the west.
my question is. why cant they just overcome these gender expectations? how many women choose to never wear makeup again, even though we feel sm pressure to be pretty and presentable and abide by all these standards? how many women refuse to let the gender roles of society dictate what field they go into? what clothes they wear, what sports they participate in?
but men are still stuck on the 'im oppressed' part, and somehow cant move the boulder of manly humiliation that is.. going to therapy? telling their bros how much their friendship means to them? they just want pity, and to pressure women into giving them more chances, more red-flags to ignore, more leeway to manipulate women further
you're absolutely right. they are ok with women deviating from gender norms because being "masculine" is empowering. which is why "modern" women wear pants while "traditional" ones are in skirts: being feminine is "backwards and oppressive". they hate women sm they'd rather die than seek help
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Mcdoodlee
I always hated the "if you do this as a guy you're gay" thing. I'm a female and I never really saw myself dating guys in my own country because they're mostly cut and paste. Sadly they think society will judge them if they walk a certain way or dress with emasculating colours (??), or if they arent able to put their foot down and be very forward.
Heck I even see videos online that the guys (in my country) created a whole new lingo as a way to tell their other guy friend they missed them because "guys can't show genuine affection or friendship to their male friends".
I always ask my guy friends why it's so hard for them to show affection and they say "society this, society that".
And the sa thing is smth I just had firsthand witness to and it made me feel so disgusting. Essentially, there's a guy I know who literally had to joke about their own SA as a child just to make it sound like it was no big deal. He was telling three girls (me included) and all they did was laugh about it and tell him that he must've loved it because he acts (in my opinion) quite hypersexual.
Its sickening. Society has literally TAUGHT men how they should act, that they should suppress emotions and so forth.
Idk much about this lonely man epidemic stuff...but what you said sums up how women get treated when they're being pursued.
But I think if the world could be a little less demanding of what a male should and shouldn't be, they could easily express themselves better, open up more and not try to hide their true personality or intentions behind a wall the world curated for them.
HOLY BALLS SORRY THIS IS SO LONG
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you're so right and that is legit so sad abt ur friend :( i hope he heals from it. it's so disgusting and imo the reason there are expectations on men to this extreme is because they want to, at any cost, avoid being perceived as feminine in any form. that's the basis of most insults hurled against men "you're play like a girl" , "you cry like a girl", etc as if it's humiliating for a man to ever stoop down to a woman's level ykwim? whereas "masculine" women are considered independent, free, intelligent, confident, etc. misogyny hurts everyone :( it's genuinely so sad
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