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people find funny to body shame others. like they normalize it. they feel so superior doing body shame to let down a person. just give a break guysss.Â
i am still fighting against my insecurities and those people make fun of me, criticize me, says hurtful things to me. even my close family relatives body shame me every time when they see me.Â
i feel so down in front of my mom, cause my mom and aunts are more prettier than me. and they always compare themselves with me. which makes me more insecure.Â
from my very childhood, i am continuously hearing that i am fat, i am gaining weight etc instead of helping me. and still i am hearing those such things.Â
instead of supporting me, people blame why i am gaining weights.Â
the thing is people even donno how much struggle i am doing, how am i fighting against my hormonal imbalance, PCOS etc stuffs.
due to my pcos, i am losing my hairs, my skin is full of acne, lots of problem i am facing. but they wont understand it. they wont know that they are the reason i am crying alone midnight, suffering my own sorrows all by myself. i am enduring all of those being alone.Â
when i see others being perfect, being pretty, i feel sooo sad about myself. i wish i could be acknowledged the same way.Â
how can i find such confident where i can see myself beautiful?? i cant. i hate seeing myself in the mirror.
but i dont understand that how can they do body shaming ??
i never ever did this to someone.Â
i always find beauty in everyone. if someone says that person is the ugliest, to me that person wont be ugly. i will find beauty in him/her. i love how god create human in different ways. i love how human looks soooo beautiful in different ways. their eyes, hair, skin everything mesmerize me. Â
why do those people are so cruel to me??Â
[this is a curse to me ]
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jade
after everything theyve already done to me, i hope that these type of people fall in a well and die of starvarion/thirst, they do not drserve to live and are the worst
devileyes033
hi. i think the reality is, people who engage in body shaming often do so because of their own insecurities or because theyve normalized toxic beauty standards. they have their own struggles and maybe feel a sense of control or superiority when they put someone else down. that doesnt excuse their behavior at all, but it might help to realize that their cruelty is more about them than it is about you. its a reflection of their narrow minded views, not a reflection of your worth. building self confidence is hard actually, especially when the people around you arent lifting you up. but remember, you are not defined by their words or their standards. your worth is not tied to your appearance or their judgment. healthy minded people dont body shame anyone. as you said, beauty can be found in anyone and anything. you just dont have the right people who will understand you. please dont tire yourself out, you are beautiful in every way.
thank you sooo much for your kind words. that's all i need. may god bless you
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