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My boundaries
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THIS IS ONLY FOR PEOPLE THAT ACTUALLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS!! not about chitchats or casual interactions (which I'm also fine with!!)
☆⌒(sidenote: I go with the flow completely, please don't be afraid to communicate clearly with me while still being respectful)⌒☆
What I'm comfortable with: (I'm not ONLY looking for people like this, this is a heads-up SPECIFICALLY for people that might feel shy expressing themselves ❀⋆.)
1) YAPPING LOTS
- I would LOVE to hear rants about literally anything that you like or did, I don't mind it when people text me lots as long as they respect my boundaries!!
2) Being cringe, weird or "embarrassing"
- I TRULY do not judge unless it's something that's objectively wrong in the sense that it hurts other people. BE FREE, BE YOU. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it when people just talk and you can think "wow, that's so them" like it's such a sweet thing to be able to adore someone just because they're acting like themselves <33
3) Different time zones
- I don't mind it as long as we both put an effort into seeing each other, I will literally stay up at nights or wake up early if needed
4) VC!!! (but only after getting to know you well enough)
- Call me when you're doing literally anything (walking home and bored, shopping, drawing, playing a game etc..) and I'll accompany you. I enjoy good company and I don't mind waiting/silence/calls in loud places and casual inconveniences
5) Playing games!!
- I might not always be free but I will make the time! <3
6) UNUSUAL BOUNDARIES!!
- If something bothers you despite being unusual I won't mind it, I can adjust as long as it's reasonable (not liking to talk about certain normal seeming topics etc..)
What I'm uncomfortable with:
1) Overly excessive venting!!
If needed I will provide a hearing ear but if we're not close and I try to close the conversation yet you insist upon it I will block you.
Reasons:
-It's your decision yet some info should never be shared on the internet, your safety is important
-Certain things can be taken out of context, my safety is important
-I'm not a therapist and friendship should benefit both sides, if I only ever feel down around you I won't stay because the online world is fake and you should seek help in real life
2) Pushing me for info that I don't want to share (not immediately but I will/might share over time if we have a bond), this includes;
-My face
-My city
-Accounts on other social media platforms
-My name
3) Pushing things in general if I already said no regardless of the topic
-Self explanatory, just respect me and we should be fine
4) Idolizing me AND/OR putting me down
-I am just a friend, nothing more nothing less. It's clear what to expect and what not to expect from me even if these things change over time. If there is no balance I won't be afraid to speak up about it and we can talk it out but PLEASE don't let things get to that
5) Constantly apologizing and NEVER being comfortable
-It is alright to feel anxious at first but if I already have done what I can do to make you comfortable yet you still only act jumpy around me that's not on me anymore and I will prioritize my comfort. It's alright to struggle but you need to work on it OR find people that will accommodate your needs. Not everyone will be fine with certain things and that's OK!! It's important to know where to place your expectations for the good of BOTH sides
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Lida2_2
Helloo I'm kind of new here in spacehey and I was looking for some friends too. You sound like a nice person, it would be nice if we could be friendss. Btw I love your profile is really pretty:)
reverie
haiii !! u sound like a rlly thoughtful person, and i’m glad u agree with having the same kinda boundaries as i do. if ur still looking for more friends i’d be happy to be one :>
Awww, thank you! for sure ♡, btw the smiths and banana fish mentioned
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YottaChroma
Heh wow, you've described much of how I feel as well when It comes to boundaries related to mindful friendships! I really appreciate that you've expressed this, thank you! I desire that you're able to find those that you seek that care about This!
Thank you so much!! I hope you'll find what you're looking for too, have a great day! <33
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
Thank you, you as well!
P. S. Would you be ok if I were to mention/share this entry to/with others in the future? I wanted to show consideration, so I decided to ask lol
by YottaChroma; ; Report
Oh for sure, you can do whatever you'd like with it dude. It's kind of you to ask <3
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
Thank you so much! I appreciate It! <3
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Ghosty_Mist37
Project Seiki and Mob Psycho 100?... I like this person already:)
I COSPLAY TOO!! you're such a sweetheart i like you already too T^T♡
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Bandruc Draal🇻🇪
Ozamu Danzai fan spotted. Lets be friends.
What's your favorite book/short story of his?? Also hell yeah
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
I only read "No longer human" but i liked it
I wouldnt say my fav book but i really liked it
the way he described everything that happened him i really felt it
by Bandruc Draal🇻🇪; ; Report
If you want I can tell you about his other works and his life, if you have any questions about him feel free to ask
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
SlasherfxcMax
Omg we both have Moe desu Miku as our pfps!! XD
omg hi twinn
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
subs
Mob psycho fan spotted
I LOVE MOB PSYCHO!!!!
by pHi1ia_Ი︵𐑼; ; Report
MOB PYSCHO FANS !!!!!
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