Idk why but I have a hard time feeling love for men the same way I do for women. It's not that I'm straight or I'm gay. But the type of attraction feels different most of the time.
Let's get this point clear, I'm definitely attracted to all genders. I've found myself being attracted to men, women as well as androgynous people. Just that the kind of attraction seems...different.
When I feel attracted to a man, it's mostly more sexual (??) Whereas when I'm attracted to women or even androgynous people, it kind of gets more romantic.
I mean I've only ever been with women so far (you can tell I went to a girl's school), and the only men I was interested in where more like online hook-ups that I end up being delusional.
It might be because I haven't really met any man in my area properly. I know a few guys, but it's not like I actively talk to them, I'm mostly friends with women T-T.
Idk man. Men who can handle weird girl yap and are actually decent people are hard to find irl. Finding decent men in general nowadays is hard by itself. At this point I might just say "fuck it" and stick to women and androgynous people but the attraction to men is still there.
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Lance!
Thats totally normal bromeo, im bi but I've always had a preference for Men too, it could just be that you have a preference, or maybe you're pansexual but under a different label romantically^^ def do some research, but orientation and sexuality are never truly black and white, labels arent going to fit everyone perfectly and thats ok!! labels are just to make it easier to narrow things down, labels dont define us, we define labels :D
Naki222.
Don't worry too much, man, it's normal to feel different attraction to different people, and it's not always possible to clearly define it. The main thing is comfort, hahaha.