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idk if this will come out wrong but i just really hate being friends with (certain)men sometimes. It may sound hypocritical because i lived 14 years of my life as a dude and still have masculine traits and stuff, but i think it actually gives me an interesting perspective on this. Anyway the worst thing about those 14 years though was that all of my friend groups were comprised entirely of men.
A lot of them were not good people and pretty good examples of Men i will never be "Friends" WITH EVER AGAIN!!! They said and did all sort of terrible and edgy shit that really pisses me off when i look back on it.
IT got worse too because they also never talked about anything except dumb horny shit and the most surface level things possible. Any personal or emotional intimate conversation never took place ( i mean how could that happen when these are the same guys who acted like i didn't exist the moment i showed any other emotion than "insert generic hyper masculine traits here") this honestly makes me feel guilty that i pretended to be a guy and hate myself just so i could be friends with a bunch of assholes.
Also to anyone who sees this feel free o share you're experiences with similar dudes in the comments if your comfortable doing so.
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Shay
Perfectly reasonable and understandable, almost every experience I've had with men was fetishizing me as a Trans Woman, which was just gross and bad. I’d like to say you get used to it but, you just don’t.