Boundries

setting boundaries seems to be like one of the hardest things to do and to do on to someone else. Why is it so hard? Why would we question someone on why they feel a certain way?, and why what we did makes them feel that way? It's very selfish, but we all do it. Goes back to when I was saying we have to stop deeming words as "bad" because people are liars and they steal and cheat and manipulate and hide things all these terms still exist no matter how "bad" they are deemed. which then makes people hide these said traits. which is why it takes so long to learn who people really are because they just hide from these "bad" things about them instead of coming to terms and learning how to deal with said trait. Lets al understand that we have bad things that we do do and we hurt people and what makes you a good person is not going out of your way to hurt some one or doing the one things they asked you not to do. we are humans we make mistakes we are not perfect but this society keeps forcing us into believing in things that don't serve us. people are more worried about how much money they make or how much name brand things they have that they never take that same wealth and put that into them self to make them a better person. you can dress up how you look on the inside but you can't hide who you are on the inside for to long. Work inward to show outward.