hi space-hey, I'm in a bit of a pickle right now.I was talking to this guy and things were getting a little too intimate considering the relatively short amount of time we've known each other. for At first I was okay with it and even went along but now I'm feeling kind of weird. Im fine with potentially being in a relationship online but after the initial nice warm feeling I got talking to him, lack of sleep and compliments about my looks (which no man has ever given me before) wore off I'm really starting to wonder if I might have just made some really bad decisions after he expressed feelings and asked to date me. he is from the same state but is 6 months older than me. he wants to "meet" up
in my city to "hangout" I offered to let him stay at my house for a weekend. which is when a really weird conversation started that I engaged with but am now regretting. he even wanted to (do things) I turned it down saying I wanna wait six months till were both 18 but he got odly upset at me wanting to wait despite saying I was worth it for the trip to my city and talking about consent. he also kept saying that "he wanted to $%#$* me" (despite knowing me for only three days) and all sorts of other yucky stuff which I went along with at first.which I am now really dissapointed to have said. luckily I haven't given him my address or anything (I'm not that stupid). I told him we were going too fast and that I just wanted to stay friends until then. which would be where this typically ends and we just stay friends. but considering some of the (sensitive) things He and I Discussed. I don't know if I even want to stay friends.
What do y'all think. Should I just cut ties entirely and never speak to him again or should I try to continue with the friendship
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✮ASTEREUS✮
Cut ties completely. He is either just really weird or an actual pedo
yeah I'm starting to think that too, especially after I told him it would be illegal for us to do "things" before I turn 18 and he stated that he would just "lie" and say he was still 17.
by ⋆˚࿔Spicy_vinta⋆˚࿔; ; Report
[MM] miniatureMapfinder
This is really fucked. So....Maybe make more boundaries and communicate how you are feeling to him. You can still be friends as long as he is ok with "Just being friends" But if not....I would say just cut that guy off...Tbh I feel kinda bad for him but hey it is what it is.
yeah ive always struggled with setting up boundaries. this just kinda happens so fast that I didnt really think about how I truly felt regarding how forward he was.
by ⋆˚࿔Spicy_vinta⋆˚࿔; ; Report
M
I say to just slowly cut ties with him because if he got upset at u for saying no then thats a total red flag especially when its something so intimate.