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love is more powerful than hate

Hello everyone, I'm not usually on here as frequently as I was like a month ago. However, I wanted to come back on here and say a few things and hopefully you guys like it and maybe even think about it for yourself. So, recently I've been doing much more thinking than usual and trying to really understand deeper levels of myself and trying to be overall better. It definitely stresses me out sometimes, but I think that I've reached a point in my life where I'm truly grateful to be me and to be able to experience all that this world has to offer us. Before, I used to be very angry, depressed, rude mouthed, and very masked. This is what makes us human though. Having such emotions that can change our behaviors and views of life in an instant. It's beautiful. It's not healthy to be like that all the time, but it's a beautiful thing we possess. Feeling emotions so deep in our hearts. It's something we all can relate to. Even so, anger and hate is something that is extremely normalized and open in the world. Like I said, it's not very healthy to be like that. I think that hate is something that can very much correlate to feeling like your not in control of yourself anymore. As if something is tied against you but you're not aware of it. I understand that many people tend to get frustrated easily or just have grown up being surrounded by it so often that it's a normal thing, but at the end of the day, it benefits nobody. Nothing is gained from being so hateful. We all bleed the same, we all cry the same, and we most definitely all love the same. So why is it that we still decide to judge or shame others knowing that we are no better than anyone else. We are all equals. When you really decide to take a look at how frequently rude comments or how many "disrespectful" people are surrounding you, you can see just how normal it is. I believe that it's something that is so deeply rooted in us, that it may be impossible to truly get rid of such anger in the world, but it doesn't hurt to try. Trying and doing all that we can to become better, for those around us and ourselves is really one of the most beneficial things I have ever felt. Being understanding and being kind "just because" really does make it feel all worth while. I can understand that many people have their reasons for being so unhappy, which is perfectly valid. But if you're so worried about the past or "what's gonna happen to me next?", you'll miss everything that is right in front of you. I personally, have been in situations where I felt like there was nothing left for me in the world, or where someone makes me so upset to the point where I decide to cuss them out with such force and anger behind it.  But when I really think about it, I realize just how much I let my emotions get the better of me. Learning to stay calm in those situations and even learning to forgive the other party or yourself is probably one of the best feelings ever. Those words will hurt you before it hurts them, so why continue to make others feel more inferior. Especially if you have been in such positions before, you should know what it's like to be the other person. It just continues a big spiral of continuous malevolent and bickering. Love and forgiveness is something we have all felt once before, and I believe that we as people should be much more kinder to each other and ourselves. We have all experienced it before, from the smallest interactions with a stranger or through a life long partner, we have been surrounded by love since birth. Although we may not gain anything from it, we definitely gain being able to experience life without having to worry about the thoughts of others or a hateful desire we can no longer control. Life is so beautiful and love is a foundation of our being, and I think we should really consider living life to the fullest and choosing to become much more peaceful with the world around us. It is never too late to change for the better. Begin loving all that's around you, and see how beautiful life is. Be grateful for all that you have and especially be grateful for the life you have been given. You were chosen to be put on this earth from the moment you were born, and maybe it's time that you really start living it. Remember that you are loved and that it all stems from within. I care about everyone of you guys and if you feel like you need to talk to someone, I am always free. I hope you guys liked this and i'm sorry it's very short. I may have more to say about this later on so hopefully I can get back on here again as soon as possible. I love you guys and peace be with you all


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