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Control Freak

I have this thing where I really dislike when people bail at the last minute (when it’s something I really wanted to do) or when they just don’t text at all bc I feel like they don’t value my time and it really pisses me off. 


Someone recently told me that it seems to be less about actually being notified and more on the need to control things. Ever since then, I think about that and how that may be true. I’m actually proud of myself for sitting and thinking on it instead of getting defensive and shutting them down. 

I’m working on that. Especially in my relationships (platonic and romantic) I’m learning that people can only waste your time if you allow them to do so. This has been on my mind a lot when I encounter new challenges or things don’t go my way. 

I’m so glad to see growth and know that I am continuing to grow and heal. To anyone who feels like they aren’t making progress or that they’re stagnant, I used to feel the same way. It does get better but when you actually work on yourself. It doesn’t happen overnight and it requires patience. 

I’m nowhere where I want to be but I’m nowhere near where I began either. Keep pushing. We’ll get there, together. 🖤


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