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My romantic life is in the doldrums. No one interests me or even catches my attention. I thought it was normal for a while since I didn't have much interaction with people outside my circle of friends or family. But when I use apps to meet people romantically, I don't feel anything. I said to myself, "Hmm, maybe it's the gender," and I tried with men, but they didn't work either, both older and my age. I talked to my mom about it, and she told me it was a "blackout." She told me it wouldn't last long, but time passed and nothing changed, and I'm getting a little worried.
I have no idea what this feeling is about. (;;;・_・)
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Mi vida romántica está de capa caída. Nadie me interesa ni me llama la atención. Pensé que era normal durante un tiempo, ya que no interactuaba mucho con gente fuera de mi círculo de amigos o familiares. Pero cuando uso aplicaciones para conocer gente romántica, no siento nada. Me dije: "Mmm, quizá sea el género", y lo intenté con hombres, pero tampoco funcionaron, ni mayores ni de mi edad. Hablé con mi madre y me dijo que era un "apagón". Me dijo que no duraría mucho, pero pasó el tiempo y nada cambió, y estoy empezando a preocuparme un poco. No tengo ni idea de a qué se debe esta sensación. (;;;・_・)
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✞ Petra
maybe youre simpy just not ready yet? maybe its meant to be? idk much about romance but if soulmates exist and some couples are "meant to be" then why couldnt there be individuals who are just meant to be single? i would like to hear more about your point of view if you dont mind
also "simpy" is a typo i meant to type "simply"
by ✞ Petra; ; Report
Well, I've had two girlfriends, nothing serious, just something for a while, long before all this. I haven't had anything serious or passing since then (1 year), and its not that I feel sad or haven't gotten over them yet, and with respect to "soul mates", I don't think anything like that exists. I can believe there are quick connections (1 month at most), but I don't think something like, meeting a person and the two of them being together for a long time in such a short time of knowing each other.i dont believe in that kind of connection. That's my opinion on "soul mates."
Idk
by Froggy The wizard; ; Report
its totally fine that you dont belive in soulmates or whatever but like idk what to say much other than "youre maybe just not ready" which i already said i just want you to know that what youre going thru is normal and you dont have to stress much about it im no profesional so if its really bothering you i would suggest you seek therapy or some kind of help/support ik its probably not that serious but i figured i would tell ya just in case
by ✞ Petra; ; Report
jsjs is fine, thanks for the advice friend, I will keep the therapy in mind
by Froggy The wizard; ; Report
no problem!!
by ✞ Petra; ; Report