Parents not understanding

My mom is currently out of a job right now, which I feel bad for her and I hope she can find a job soon. So that means we don't have health care rn (yay america/s). Now, I have adhd and some kind of anxiety disorder. Though I have not been officially diagnosed therapists and medical professionals have told me I have it, but since it 'doesn't affect my school work' (it does) that I don't need to actually get tested and I'll be fine, news flash, I'm not fine. I have paranoia issues that can and do keep me up at night. My adhd makes doing things that don't satisfy my dopamine levels sucks to do so like doing some school work I have to do over the summer suck really bad. I've told my mom multiple times that I need to get diagnosed and get meds because I hope that will help me. My mom texts me today talking about school stuff and I bring up my adhd and she asks me if I'm working on any coping skills like no sorry my I don't have a therapist and I have zero clue what those coping skills are! Like trust me I've tried planers, writing stuff down to remember, the music thing but it never works, I don't know what to do at this point Xp

-Crow