my dad's birthday thumbs down

!!! TW ABT FAMILIAL TRAUMA (particularly regarding fathers) N DIVORCE STUFF !!!

hey yallll it's my estranged father's birthday today so i wanted to wish him a big fuck you and my birthday present to him is two middle fingers up FR FUCK THIS DUDE I'M SO HAPPY I NEVER HAVE TO SEE HIS ASS AGAIN

this year is the first time my family and i are celebrating holidays without him since the divorce. this year will be the first thanksgiving, the first christmas, the first new years without him. at first it was a bit scary, but i am so honestly so much happier this way. he ruined every good thing, i am so happy we don't have to be fake on father's day and on his birthday anymore. he ruined a portion of my own birthday last year, he made a whole scene and it was just awful T ^ T but this year will be different!! it's been hard dealing with these growing pains and getting used to life on my own without his brainwashing, but slowly and surely things are getting better!! 

once again, i hope my father has a horrible day today n if i see him in public i hope he sees me and feels the weight of the shame and guilt from everything he has ever done to me and my family, and i hope that weight will make him fall through the earth into nothingness thanks <3333

p.s. this is the birthday cake that i would give him to remind him of how he hated spongebob so much when my sibling n i were babies n how it will now come back to haunt him bc he is utterly alone with only the memories and regrets echoing through him