Fujoshis are NOT bad, and here's why..

Fujoshis and fundashis arent supposed to sexualise men and women. Its simply a term to fit in a "fandom" of who reads what. Fujos are not a new thing their history goes all the way back in ancient china and it was very normalized. Being a Fujoshi isnt bad if u actually KNOW how to be an ACTUAL fujo that doesnt sexualise peoples lives (ew)?? The community of fujoshis has been getting some hate lately bc of the messed up ppl that DO actually do bad things and give fujos a bad name. Now i dont have a lot of knowledge on fundashis since js like fujos it was created way back in ancient china but i dont know a lot ab them. 

Also, fujoshis and yaoi were invented to create adiversity between the men that used to sexualise lesbian women back in Wakoku ("ancient" japan). It was a movement to show that women back then could enjoy the same things men did without being "disrespectful and talking back to their masters" and WITHOUT doing the same thing as men and sexualise them. They simply just enjoyed the sight.

So what do i wanna make out of this, you dont rly hate fujoshis you hate the modern tryhard "fujoshis" that instead of following the path of millions of people in the past in this community, they ridicule and shame the fandom, which makes real fujoshis embarassed of telling people they are fujoshis. 

Please, honestly you cant have an opinion on something you may not be educated enough on, before hating or making up ur mind get the facts straight. If you're looking to hate on somebody do hate on the people that are actively trying to destroy this community. A "fujoshi" i dont like that actually gives me the impression of sexualizing and fetishizing men is a creator on tiktok called "theyaoigorl", her real name is Lamy and i believe shes one of the reasons the fujoshi community looks bad. I dont think shes a real fujoshi bc shes simply doing what i expressed is wrong on the first 2 paragraphs.