Love and Social media

I know a few people will tend to say social media ruined love and i agree to a point and just wanted to share my thoughts and get opinions from others For starters i don’t get all the 3 month rule or the whole “microcheating” if anything any kind of cheating is cheating no matter what and everyone has become so delusional and paranoid they just start following mass myths and sticking by it genuinely believing it 

I feel like personally the idea of love has lost its meaning and a relationship isn’t as valued as much as it should be My personal opinion but i see a relationship as a promise between two people that love one another and extension of it means that they will stick through every hard ship together and that’s also where another one of my points comes in 

“Communication is key” It’s so much more needed than just communication to make a relationship work and be long lasting you should be aware that your partner has boundaries and needs too and you have to value that and  they should value yours they aren’t bound to you and your aren’t bound to them communicating is a big thing of course but comprehension is also too you need to be able to understand your person 

I personally am in a relationship going 5 months strong and have had moments where i’ve had concerns i’ve expressed to my girlfriend a lot stemming from my previous relationship and how they have left some paranoia and im so glad that she understands that and tries her best to adress my issues and i have done the same for her we both talked about our past relationship to understand one another to not repeat mistakes and be able to help one another to make sure of each other happiness 

I do believe social media has warped the idea of love a lot but it’s still something we can fix as long as we can communicate, comprehend and agree on something with our partners yet again everyone relationships are different and we can all perceive things differently