mental illnesses

why is self diagnosing so.. normalised? people tell you theyre depressed, you feel bad, then they tell you they took several quizes nd they all said "severe depression". like no, fuck no, youre NOT depressed. maybe its a sign to go to a psychiatrist, therapist, whatever, but its.. definitely not a confirmed illness. mfs who also say they have bpd because they relate to a tiktok..? shut up gosh please ! maybe check if you feel like somethings going on..? 


second thing, why is sharing struggles.. so made fun of. ill openly say- i was DIAGNOSED with depression and social anxiety. by a DOCTOR. and tell me why whenever i opened up about it they said.. i seek attention? no i dont i just felt comfy with you bro

third thing. people must understand not everyone adores opening up. "whoa, you have lots of scars. tell me, how did you get them?" when i nicely refuse they BEG. no, no i wont share anything with you. leave me alone..?

fourth thing. radiohead and deftones ARE worth listening to. and gumball is worth watching, thanksie bye