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Next year I’ll already be turning 18... and nothing interesting has happened in my life so far!! People my age have already gone to tons of parties, kissed lots of people, had relationships , and none of that has ever happened to me.
It makes me really sad because I feel like I’m not enjoying anything 😢. I barely even have any memories from when I was 13, 14, or 15. Most of my memories are from my childhood...That feels awful… Sometimes I go to the mall with my friends, but that’s about it.
I’m taking a private course to help me with my schoolwork, and everyone there is so popular, rich, and cool. Sometimes I hear them talking about all the parties, drinks, and experiences they’ve had, and I realize that I’m not like them , I don’t feel “normal” like they are.
Can someone give me some advice to help
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Ditzy<666 🦇
hey i feel you so much and i want you to know youre not broken or behind or anything like that because honestly half those people talking about all their wild experiences are probably exaggerating anyway
but if you really want to start living more then yeah go outside but start small you know like i only recently had the confidence to just go places and it changed everything for me i literally walked from my house all the way downtown just because and ended up having more fun than I thought
if you have strict parents i get it but maybe try baby steps like joining clubs or activities where people already share something with you or look up facebook groups in your city or area where people organize hangouts and stuff
and honestly dont sleep on online friends either like instagram and facebook can actually be good for meeting people in your area who share your interests
school is complicated i know but maybe try joining clubs or even just sitting with different people at lunch sometimes the most interesting conversations happen in the weirdest places
also that thing about not having memories from 13 14 15 i think thats more normal than you think like most people dont have this movie montage of their teenage years even if social media makes it look that way
youre not missing some secret formula for being a teenager youre just figuring out who you are and thats actually the most important part
get out there friend but do it for you not because you think you need to catch up to anyone else<333🌀
Thanks !
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