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Socializing (kind of a vent thing? i'm not sure)

hhhhh sometimes i wonder how is it so easy for people to make friends and maintain (?) them, usually when i meet new people and they become my friends i don't really talk to them, i don't know why, i can't seem to be able to keep the conversation going with them and i never reach out to them.. why? because i'm afraid i won't be able to think of stuff to talk about and it'll awkward and dry.


ahhhh, why is it so hard? i just want a friend to share icons with, play games and just do stuff. but i can't get to feel comfortable enough with peopleĀ  to do that, i just think i'm annoying.


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i know it's been 2 years but for socializing i will tend to talk about things I like and ask the person what they like and then if our interest is kinda similar we can discuss and share our opinion or maybe joke about them, it's fun for me


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oh, huh. i didn't expect anyone to reply but thanks for the advice!!! i get that talking to people can be fun too, i just have anxiety lol also, how did you even find this entry? is so old. (not said in a negative way)

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this is kinda stupid and funny but I had this kinda challenge for myself like an anime protagonist who has a goal or motive, my challenge was to ask whoever people who had glasses that if they watch anime or not, and I used this exuce to made a few friends I think 2 were really becoming my friend, the others was just for the sake of the challenge there was actually one person too who could be my friend but I had a job to do and I was late so I kinda ran away, I kinda regret it cuz that person seems very excited to talk more.
yeah I know this way is stupid
btw one of my friend was from library and the other one was from high school
also 6/10 people didn't watched anime or something so yeah, i figured out every weeb doesn't have glasses

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