How many of you had this happened to you?

When you say things to other people that you actually means, they end up take it the wrong way?

This is what led to misunderstanding and miscommunication that not only happens on the internet, but in real life as well. Its bad enough that as someone who has speech problem formerly in my early youth, I has to deal with my limited speech when i talked to people. Some people that i talked to, i try the best i could to be nice and treat people as i want to be treated. There people that takes things the wrong way about you, then go as far as gaslighting you. What i don't understand is that if they understand the things that i say to them, then why do they tend to twist my words around as if they think that i mean it, when in reality, that's not what i actually mean? What are they gaining from slandering me that has no malicious intents? I can kind of see why people don't be friends with much people. Don't get me wrong, i like meeting new faces and know someone personally especially when someone has something in common with, but in the time we're living in right now, not many people are willing to give you a time of the day to know who you really are. Only for them to misunderstand you! 

There always gonna be someone out here (or who knows on here) that will find something about you that they can use against you because they just have this hate for you for unknown reasons.