life is hard. relationships are worse i think. my dad was married to a women for over 6 years. she is the definition of the devil. She used up ALL his money all the time. while we were broke she made him buy her a new 2024 9at the time) car, a new iphone, starbucks every day. she has a 8 year old son who has autism and let him do whatever he wanted which was so bad. he ended up getting in trouble weekly at school for hurting girls and yelling, being disrespectfull ect....
she is bipolar. has ptsd, depression, anxiety, and shes diabetic. we all caterd to her every need and had to walk on eggshells around her. one time she was 'feeling sick" and texted me asking for water. i brought her some and she was passed out in the upstairs bathroom. i took my dog out to go potty and the sherrif pulled up with fire, ambulance, and 2 squad cars. it was a F3nt overd0se and she was taking to a hospital for 'attempting" iykyk finding out late the cops just told my dad to flush it and nothing would be said. she continued to steal money from me and my siblings for he active drg life Math, fen, and other stuff. she also woke up at 5am to drink until 12pm heavy amoints of v0dka.
stuff like this happend very very often. she also kicked my cat down the stairs and my cat broke her leg. yeah amazing right....fast forward. my dad was fed up with her wanting a divorce but let her stay to get on her feet even helping her job search and still payed for her phone, car, and gave her money when she asked. after months of her nt making a dent in moving out my dad told her she NEEDED to leave because she was doing too much. that night she came down from my dads rom with her gvn loaded and carelessley pointed at him with my 2 sisters in the room she asked him to unload it. he lost it (rightfully) and told her she was done and needed to leave in the next week, because she was being wreckless. he works at a powerplant and has 40-50 hour weeks working days AND nights dangerously.
my dad didnt want us in the house alone with her. 1 week before thier 7th year anniversary he (out of the kindness of his heart) he went to help her take her car to the dealership to get somthing renewed she started pushing divorce after begging for him back every single day. after my dad said we can talk later she got mad and started screaming and slamming doors. (my dad bought the house btw) my dad is a bigger guy, bald, beard, kinda spooky looking but is the worlds biggest sweetheart. you can ask my mom HIS EX WIFE gah.
okay anwyaws we had 2 weeiner dogs one was a mini names marley and my dads wife slammed her in the door yelling at my dad and my dad who loves marley pushed the door open to let her out. and yelling at her about it. my dad not once touched her and the door or his fist never made contact with her. she said she was calling the police and so he went outside to wait. she clamed he puncher her in the head, jaw, and cheek. she said he cracked her tooth (the same tooth that was rotted from the drgs) and he broke her nose (wich was crooked since birth theres 200s of pics since 2009 of her like that. long story short my dad got arrested and put on hold for 24 hours.
i had come back from school to her screaming in my poor grandmas face. about how he hit her and bla bla bla. less that 6 hours later she texted my grandma saying "i know he WOULD have hit me if i didnt call the cops. i didnt ask for him to be arrested" and such. me, my sisters, and my mom helped her pack her stuff and moved it all into the livingroom for her to get easily, not one thing was dammaged or stolen but she said we stole all her diabetic suplies weich was all kept together in bags and the stuff refregerated was kept in the referigator, anything glass was wrapped and jewlery was put into ziplocks and placed neatly in boxes. she came by later while we were all gone to get her stuff and she had apparently lost her mind saying we stole everything. she poured water all over my dads clothes and thrown plants arounf the house smashing stuff and leaving glass all over his bedroom floor, ripped off curtians, stole from me, my litte sister, and m older sisters rooms. such as curtians, box springs, and other random stuff from her dads that was given to us. its been 3 months she wont get her crap and also that same dog she smashed in the door she stole.
UPDATE: things she did/said
ngl this kind of stuff never botherd me with her until she started being mean to my dad, he had gained weight from working so muvh and being stressed, he went to the dr and they said there were no concerns with his weight. but she kept saying mean things about him to his ex wife (my mom), grandma, and my 2 sisters one older and one at the time 11, and ovy me; it was stuff like "hes getting fat and needs to lose it" "i love him....but...the weight issue" "maybe of he layed off the sweets" stuff like that.
she had also planned to baby trap him, except she has pancratic cancer...half f her stomach was cut out and she physically can not have more kids but couldent grasp that. she told my older sister who was 17 at the time (the wife being 37) had told her TW: intimate topic if you arent comftorable scroll away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"when me and your dad are "doin it' (except she didnt say that) i make him not use a c0nd0m because i know he cant pu11 out" she had constantly told him/us she would never be able to live without him.
when i was in my freshman year of highschool it was pouring rain, drove her son to school but not us because he didnt want to get his feet wet..anyways i grabbed a jacket she said i could wear out of the hall closet and then mid day got an absolute paragraph from her mad and crying because it was from her dead best friend, told my dad i didnt ask to wear it and got in lots of trouble. but she tols me that morning that it ws okay and i could wear it...
my sister was 10 when this happend she has bad asthma like hospital bad in the supe heat or super cold its danderous for her, on the school busses expecially, both my mom and dad work but she didnt work 1 day the WHOLE time they were together and still hadent but only took her son to and from school because "the sun makes his skin hot" refused to let my little sister go too because she would take her son to get fast food when there was no food left in the house
i know a lot of people would think my dad could see this but he didnt, every time he came back she would spring out of bed to go clean and be all sweet and say we were horrible to her...
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Cherry
This is absolutely grounds for legal action. Endangerment of children, hurting animals, stealing, false imprisonment, and probably more and even if your dad doesn't press charges, (which is understandable, it's expensive) a restraining order might be smart cause she absolutely sounds like a psycho who might come back and want to hurt ya'll. Stay safe, so sorry you had to deal with such a lunatic
that was the origional plan, restraining orders. but they need to get the criminal case and divorce out of the way 1st its been months tho because things keep getting pushed back :/
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