About me, Boundires, and DNI (UPDATED)

GONNA PUT THIS UP HERE FIRST, DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF YOU'RE UNDER 16, THIS INCLUDES AGES 15-11, GO AWAY, TOUCH GRASS AND SKIN YOUR KNEES, DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME, I AM A LEGAL ADULT, I CAN VOTE, I CAN DRINK, I CAN DRIVE, YOU'RE AN IMMITURE LITTLE BITCH IF YOU CAN NOT RESPECT DNI UNDER 16. NO AGE = NO ADD BACK

Hi guys!! It's Noah here. I'm just letting people know some stuff, including DNI and boundaries.

My name is Noah, I'm an 18-year-old trans man from Australia, and I go by he/they pronouns. Please do be patient with me as I have dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscalculia and inattentive adhd. I'm also looking at an autism diagnosis. I've been told I likely have other things which I will explain later.

I may be a little slow, or ask you to repeat things, or re-explain things. I will get it eventually, I just need some time to understand what is being said so I can respond and understand what you said better. That also being said, please don't be afraid of asking me to repeat something if what I said doesn't make sense, I will be happy to try re explain it.

I ask that you are AT LEAST 16 years old or older, I am 18 years old, I do not feel okay with people aged 15-11 or 24-50 being in PRIVATE CONTACT with me. It's gross, it's creepy, and I don't want it. If you're 16-23, then you're welcome to friend me. But if there is no age in your bio, then I will not add back

Sometimes I may disappear off the face of the earth, but I come back eventually. I either get too overwhelmed to respond, too burnt out or I completely forget this thing exists. I do respond eventually, I just need time. But if I don't respond to you, feel free to send me another message!! I probably just forgot to respond.

While I'm not diagnosed, I am mentally ill, I have been through at least a decade of abuse. I'm not in a place where I can get diagnosed. I have been told by other people they have noticed signs of abandonment issues, disorganised attachment, BPD, C-PTSD, OSDD, Depression and Anxiety. I can be really hypervigilant, untrusting, have times were I switch from i/me/myself, to we/us/our, and even noah/him/they. I may also switch up on you and get really, really mad and defensive. If this happens, give me a day or two to calm down, and I will come back to apologise. I understand that my mental health is not an excuse to be an asshole.


PLEASE KEEP IN MIND!!!!:
- I have Dyslexia, if you have an UNREADABLE TYPING QUIRK I ask that you give a translation. If you have small minor ones like 2 being too/to / abt being about / 1 being ! or accidental typos are okay!! They are readable, but they may take me a little longer to read. But if you have a typing quirk like 0|<@y then I will ask for a translation.
- I struggle with tone. I may ask you to use tone tags, but they're not forced. I will probably just ask about what tone it was in or if what you said was a joke or you being sarcastic.
- Like above, I am mentally ill, one day I will be warm, the next I will be cold, most of the time it won't be you, it will likely be my mental health being shitty to me. But I do come back eventually, I just need some time.
- Please be patient with me, my brain doesn't work the same way as a lot of people. My mind has been conditioned to think, feel and process everything differently. If you tease me, I will think I'm annoying you, and my texting tone will probably change.
- I have a little quirk called Ferssion, I feel music and I get a vibe from it, sometimes I will go on tagnatites about it and i'd love your input but if you don't want too that's okay!!

I may yap about my special interests (music and mental health), and that can include any of the following:
How one day all the digital media companies are gonna have a downfall due to greed, and we will all go back to physical media
Mental health/trauma and how it affects someone
Mental health disorders/neurodivergence
Effects of bullying
How cruel the world can be
Whatever band I have hyperfixated on
Other stuff related to it!!
Please, if any of it gets too heavy, triggering, or personal, please lmk and I will happily change the subject!!

Boundaries!!
Anyone can do: giving song recs, talking to me, sending friend requests, compliments, joining my Discord server (see blog called "discord server"), asking about emo music or music in general, talking about my special interests
Ask: venting out, yapping about your interests, getting advice (I will most likely say yes to all, but still ask anyway)
Close friends: making me playlists, asking for Insta
No one: calling me hot/sexy, making jokes about hurting me or knowing where I live, mentioning mpreg, mentioning sexual content (WITH exceptions of venting), making negative comments about my body


DNI and the consequences:
under 16, indefinite block ion care if you're "turning 16 next week!" freak off, I'm a legal adult and don't feel comfy with people under 16 being in contact with me!! (faking to be 16 will also resort in an indefinite block, even if you have turn 16)
Over 24, just a refusal to add.. ion feel comfy with people over the age of 24 being friends with me yet..
No age in bio, to me that just shows you're a minor and like I said above I'm not interacting with people under the age of 16!!
Refusal to give translations for typing quirks.. ion care if I'm being "ableist", you're being ablest towards someone with a LEARNING DISABILITY. I will end up blocking/unadding you.
Creeps! Ion care if you thought you could get to me cause I'm slow, but I'm not that slow. You will be blocked and reported. I have and will name and shame you on my page
Basic DNI, I'm a traumatised, neurodivergant, trans man, who likes masc presenting people, who is also on the asexual spectrum.. I have a strong sense of justice and wont stand for any of the phobics, isms or bullies

If I need too add anything I will, but this is it for now :))