He left us when I was 3 and then I met him years later only for him to hit me. It's now some years since that happened and idk if I should forgive him or not. Thoughts?
No lo perdones, solo sigue adelante con tu vida. Lo mejor es dejar atrás ese pasado que te afecta, sin culpa ni miedo. Mereces sestar mejor, no dejes que esos pensamientos te molesten
sometimes an absent father is better than a present one that makes your life a living hell. i can't escape mine, so i'd definitely keep him out of my life if i could. it's what i'd do if i were u take care of yourself <3
nah i wouldnt ive gone through the same thing ididnt meet my dad till i was 16 years old and my mom we are not close either so i guess long story short.. i dont really know my father or mother.. which is sad so i totally understand what your going through if you lowkey wanna talk about it ever feel free to shoot me a message for sure :)
It depends on how it makes you feel. What he did was of course unaccaptable, but I don´t think you should let strangers decide if you should forgive your own dad. If possible mabey talk with him over this again and if not then you should question yourself if you could ever forgive him or not. Even if you decide to forgive him doesn´t mean you must let him onto your life!! The decision is up to you!!1
Hey, I think this is really personal. I don't know what you decided, but maybe you could talk to him, just to get over something you feel. If it doesn't work out, you can move on (does what I'm trying to say make sense?)
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Becca
I wouldn't. It might hurt not to have a dad but I know for a fact nobody deserves a piece of shit asshole!
Amo las milanesas
No lo perdones, solo sigue adelante con tu vida. Lo mejor es dejar atrás ese pasado que te afecta, sin culpa ni miedo. Mereces sestar mejor, no dejes que esos pensamientos te molesten
applepie
sometimes an absent father is better than a present one that makes your life a living hell. i can't escape mine, so i'd definitely keep him out of my life if i could.
it's what i'd do if i were u
take care of yourself <3
S4N_yo0o0
The hell?ofc no he's a$$hole and ppls like that shouldn't talk to you
yumekiw
Nuh uh he sounds like ass
reaSt4r♬
I definitely wouldn’t, if he really loves you and wants to be a good father figure he would put the effort in. I’m sorry you had to go through that
CruellaDevil
nah i wouldnt ive gone through the same thing ididnt meet my dad till i was 16 years old and my mom we are not close either so i guess long story short.. i dont really know my father or mother.. which is sad so i totally understand what your going through if you lowkey wanna talk about it ever feel free to shoot me a message for sure :)
noir ^_^
i honestly don't think you should... of he abandoned you THEN hit you, then that's already enough red flags.
lance
I mean if you wanna risk it for a chocolate biscuit then go ahead
Linsofl
NUH UH
dont let him abuse you again, never forgive him for what he did, even if hes your dad!
Rokii
It depends on how it makes you feel. What he did was of course unaccaptable, but I don´t think you should let strangers decide if you should forgive your own dad. If possible mabey talk with him over this again and if not then you should question yourself if you could ever forgive him or not. Even if you decide to forgive him doesn´t mean you must let him onto your life!! The decision is up to you!!1
Kaiissuuu
BIG NO.
Lýmik
Hey, I think this is really personal. I don't know what you decided, but maybe you could talk to him, just to get over something you feel. If it doesn't work out, you can move on (does what I'm trying to say make sense?)
☆cralotix☆
DEFINITELY NOT
𝑴𝒂𝒓𝒊
NO, quién en su sano juicio lo hace?
𝑴𝒂𝒓𝒊
NO, quién en su sano juicio lo hace?
ZeroCore4_4
nahhh man you do NOT forgive him for that at all
Axel
BIG NO
Georgia
NOO
Ananassıkıcı12
Noooooooo