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sometimes i look at myself at the mirror and i doesnt like my apperency, i think im ugly and dont like myself, yesterday have appeared a guy at my school party who has a hair more beautiful than my, eyes a body and a face better than mine, and i compare myself eith this, im doing my dreadlocks and im at the frizzly phase, and i look at the mirror and thinks this is going terrible, but i need aceppt that this is part of the process, if you know a method to just give myself more self esteem..., i see that i need to stop to compare myself, but sometimes is impossible, for me its hard to do that.
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Borlali
Sometimes I can give myself more self-esteem by thinking that without my peculiarities in appearance I would no longer be me.
For example, for a while I didn't like my eyebrows because back in elementary school one girl started asking what was wrong with them because they were short and light. Honestly, I don't know why my eyebrows bothered her. Probably because they are not very visible? IDK
One day I decided to paint my eyebrows, and looking in the mirror, I realized that it was just not me. Without my light short eyebrows, I am not me anymore. It seemed that the changed appearance was losing my personality, my inner image. It does not convey it. I do not imagine myself like that. Without all the features of my appearance, looking in the mirror, I will no longer see myself, it’s like someone else, with a different nature, with different thoughts.
Maybe my example from life is very stupid. Because I still sometimes worry about my appearance. But this incident really helped me to love myself. Because I am me and no one else.
I also noticed that people with complexes about their appearance often like to look for flaws in others. Therefore, when a person somehow tries to offend someone for their appearance, I think that this person does not love himself, and that is why he picks on everyone.
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