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Discussions Are A Love Language

(don't mind me, just remembering SpaceHey blogging exists)

Hopefully I'll be able to go through with my original goal of semi-consistently blogging and get in the habit of writing more :0
Onto the subject title, whenever I hear someone have a passionate discussion or just talk about something they're interested about with the force of a thousand suns (especially when they're talking directly to me and my attention is all on them, seeing the light in their eyes😳), that truly is a love language. For me, talking about anything or having the focus on me is a bit uncomfortable, but I yearn for it nonetheless; So whenever I see someone have the focus on them and not care with me, I see that as they trust themself to be a bit vulnerable with me, so that they can go full 'yelling-about-my-interests' mode without thinking someone is judging them. I haven't had that happen a lot, much less face-to-face, so it's even more of a special occasion when it does happen. I really fall a bit in love with them in those moments, whether it's romantic, platonic, or some other type of love. Like I said, there's some real trust in the way people gush about their interests so unabashedly to someone else. Luckily, I'm more than content to listen to just listen to them speak, so it's a win-win situation!

Sometimes it doesn't even have to be completely directed at me, whenever I see a video about someone educating or speaking with such passion, I get an urge to just kiss them dsfnkldgsjlsdf; I'm sure there's a reason for that.

The worst part is when after they're done gushing their interests to me, they invite me to gush about my interests with the same passionate energy; love language like that absolutely destroys me 😭

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Ik this post is a tad old, but I 1000% agree!! I love seeing how passionate people get when they're discussing something they're deeply interested in. Especially as someone who just infodumps about my favourite tv shows and loves knowing other people are interested in what I have to say, I love being that person for someone else - like, yes! Share that extreme niche! Tell me about the deep and intricate lore of your favourite game! Wow, I didn't know that about frogs, that's so cool! Love when people are passionate about stuff, and love when they decide I'm the person they want to share that passion with.

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